Friendship Manor

    1209 21st Ave, Rock Island, IL, 61201
    3.8 · 33 reviews
    • Independent living
    • Assisted living
    • Memory care
    • Skilled nursing
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    2.0

    Great therapy, amenities; inconsistent, unsafe

    I moved my mom here for the continuum of care and loved the amenities - clean, large facility with pleasant apartments, active programs, great therapy, bilingual nurses and many caring staff who genuinely helped. Sadly, my experience was mixed: reception and phone staff were rude, caregiving was inconsistent (CNAs sometimes neglectful, caregiver no-shows, communication lapses), management felt poor, and I witnessed a serious safety lapse with ignored oxygen orders that led to hospitalization. If you want excellent therapy and activities, this place can be great, but go in cautiously and verify staffing/management practices before you commit.

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Medication management

    Healthcare staffing

    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Air-conditioning
    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Private bathrooms
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Transportation

    • Community operated transportation
    • Transportation arrangement
    • Transportation arrangement (non-medical)

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Computer center
    • Fitness room
    • Gaming room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space
    • Small library
    • Wellness center

    Community services

    • Concierge services
    • Fitness programs
    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Planned day trips
    • Resident-run activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    3.82 · 33 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      2.9
    • Staff

      3.5
    • Meals

      2.7
    • Amenities

      4.0
    • Value

      3.0

    Pros

    • Helpful, accommodating, and friendly staff (many reports)
    • Clean and well-maintained facility (multiple mentions)
    • Up-to-date or recently remodeled areas
    • Wide range of amenities (apartments, game room, music, church services, store, library, cafe, bistro, gift shop)
    • Therapy and outpatient rehab programs with positive outcomes
    • Knowledgeable clinical staff (Director of Nursing, Physical Therapist)
    • Continuing-care/progressive-need model up to skilled nursing (no wait reported)
    • Active social and activity programming (crafts, day trips, music, church-based activities)
    • Outdoor spaces and pleasant grounds (bird-watching, patio)
    • Bilingual/Spanish-speaking nursing staff and good communication for some residents
    • Tours and transportation options (bus tours available)
    • Lower rent/affordability relative to comparable options (reported)
    • Non-profit orientation and resident-focused mission (reported)
    • Independent living benefits (no lawn care, maintenance-free, active lifestyle)
    • Long-term residents reporting satisfaction and peace of mind

    Cons

    • Serious allegations of neglect by some CNAs (dropping residents, withholding food)
    • Reports of staff eating residents' meals
    • Alleged sexual harassment by head chef reported in reviews
    • Critical safety concerns (oxygen orders ignored, empty oxygen tanks, refusal to call for help)
    • Reports of hospitalizations and at least one death allegedly linked to staff failures
    • Inconsistent staffing and care quality (highly variable experiences)
    • Communication problems between CNAs, clinical staff, and families
    • Rude receptionists and poor phone/customer service in some accounts
    • Complaints about unqualified or poorly trained staff
    • Complaints about board/management and poor oversight
    • Some areas of facility dated and in need of upgrades
    • One-review mentions only one meal per day (concern about dining consistency)
    • COVID-related tour restrictions have impacted tour experiences
    • Remodeling ongoing in parts of the building (may be disruptive)
    • Mixed reports on welcome/admission experience (some felt not warmly received)

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment across the reviews is mixed: many reviewers praise the facility for its amenities, therapy services, and a generally caring environment, while a notable subset of reviews raises serious staff, safety, and management concerns. Positive themes include cleanliness, an array of on-site amenities, effective outpatient and inpatient therapy programs, and staff members (especially clinical therapists and certain managers) who are described as knowledgeable, helpful, and compassionate. Several long-term residents and family members report peace of mind, active social lives, and satisfaction with independent living arrangements and continuing-care options.

    Care quality shows a split pattern. Multiple reviews highlight excellent therapy outcomes, clear program explanations from clinical staff, and successful rehabilitations attributed to the Director of Nursing and physical therapists. Memory-care and assisted-living units are described by some reviewers as providing loving, compassionate care with good social activities and safe outdoor patios. Conversely, other reviews contain serious allegations of neglect and unsafe practices: CNAs reportedly dropped residents, withheld food, or even consumed residents' meals; one reviewer alleges sexual harassment by the head chef; several reviewers state that oxygen orders were ignored, oxygen tanks were nearly empty, staff refused to call for help, and those situations led to hospital ICU admissions and a death. These are grave claims and indicate inconsistent care and risk for vulnerable residents according to the reviewers who reported them.

    Staffing and communication likewise appear inconsistent from review to review. Many guests praise courteous, bilingual staff (including Spanish-speaking nurses), responsive managers, and staff who make life easier for residents. At the same time, other reviewers report rude receptionists, caregivers who do not show up, unqualified staff, and poor communication between CNAs and higher-level staff. There are also several comments criticizing board governance and management responsiveness, suggesting systemic oversight issues in some reviewers' experiences. This variability suggests that day-to-day experience may depend heavily on which staff members or leadership are in place at a given time.

    Facilities and amenities are generally reported as strengths. Reviewers mention a broad set of offerings: apartments, game rooms, music, church services, on-site store, library, cafes/bistros, gift shop, banking services, therapy spaces, activity areas, and pleasant outdoor spaces good for bird-watching. Some parts of the community have been remodeled or are described as up-to-date and clean; others are characterized as older, darker, or in need of upgrades, and remodeling is reportedly underway in places. The community's continuing-care model and elevator access were noted, as well as transportation/tour options like bus tours. Affordability and lower rent are highlighted by some reviewers as a plus.

    Dining and daily living reports are mixed. Several reviews praise the food and say residents are happy with meals, while other reviews raise troubling dining-related issues (reports of CNAs eating residents' meals and at least one review claiming residents were told they could not eat). One review mentions only one meal per day, which is an outlier but noteworthy. Activity programming is commonly cited as positive—church activities, crafts, day trips, and social events appear to be regular and well-received by many residents.

    In summary, the reviews collectively portray a community with many real strengths—comprehensive amenities, effective therapy services, caring and competent staff in many roles, and options for continuing care—while also containing serious negative reports that raise safety and management concerns. The most frequent and significant patterns are (1) consistently praised therapy and some compassionate caregivers, and (2) a smaller but very serious set of allegations around neglect, safety (oxygen management), staffing reliability, and poor management oversight. Prospective residents and families should weigh the positive programmatic and amenity features against the reported variability in staff quality and safety practices. Given the severity of some complaints, it would be prudent for interested parties to verify current staffing levels, training and incident-response protocols, oxygen and medical-order compliance procedures, and recent inspection or licensure records, in addition to conducting an in-person tour and speaking directly with current residents and family members.

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    About Friendship Manor

    Friendship Manor sits at 1209 21st Ave in Rock Island, Illinois, and people know it as a faith-based, non-denominational, nonprofit community that focuses on caring for seniors in different stages of life, and even though they're not taking new patients right now, you'll see there's a lot going on inside with independent living homes, assisted living apartments, specialized care for memory problems, skilled nursing, and even short-term respite and rehab after things like strokes, so it's not just a place for one kind of care but seems to have a mix of choices, and they have English-speaking staff who work around the clock, including nurses for both part-time and 24-hour needs, which means residents have someone for health concerns at any time of day or night, and what sets the place apart is that Friendship Manor, started by The International Order of The King's Daughters & Sons, Illinois Branch, offers a refund plan with partial refunds for the first two years which can help families, and the community's focus on faith and charitable work runs through all their activities, whether it's in their continuing care retirement model, business development programs, or community involvement, and for those who want to learn about finances, they run educational resources like blogs, fraud alerts, financial calculators, plus they offer wealth management with a team-so if someone wants help with personal or business finances, retirement planning, estate management, or setting up things like 401K plans, they have staff for that-while their commercial lending covers real estate, equipment, SBA loans, lines of credit, and other options for local businesses, and for daily living they've got amenities meant to keep life easy and interesting for older adults, including choices in food and activities, and alongside those regular things, Friendship Manor even provides economic development information and workforce resources, leadership and advocacy programs, and has villa homes as well as regular apartments, so even though they're a health and elder care facility, they've also built up a whole range of support systems for residents and local businesses, and if someone wants to tour, they can see the place and ask staff and current residents about life there, and all through the year, the Manor puts out news and event updates, spotlights its members, and encourages ways to connect with others, but above all, what you'll find is a steady, familiar environment with a long history of community and supportive care.

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