Pricing ranges from
    $4,673 – 5,607/month

    Say You're Home, Inc.

    5971 Lake Murray Blvd, La Mesa, CA, 91942
    4.3 · 6 reviews
    • Assisted living
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    4.0

    Warm home care, small rooms

    I chose this small, home-like place and was glad to be referred. The staff are warm, get to know residents, the owner cooks great meals, and the courtyard and piano make it cozy. Care was very personal and often excellent, but rooms are small, activities are limited and residents have little say. Staffing and owner/caregiver issues caused inconsistency, and it's pricey-still, I'm grateful for the care my wife received.

    Pricing

    $4,673+/moSemi-privateAssisted Living
    $5,607+/mo1 BedroomAssisted Living

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Coordination with health care providers
    • Medication management

    Healthcare staffing

    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Transportation

    • Transportation arrangement (medical)
    • Transportation to doctors appointments

    Community services

    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    4.33 · 6 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      4.2
    • Staff

      3.8
    • Meals

      4.5
    • Amenities

      3.0
    • Value

      1.0

    Pros

    • home-like feel
    • friendly staff
    • courtyard
    • meals prepared by owner
    • excellent/exceptional care
    • piano on site
    • caregivers who talk to and engage residents
    • small size enabling personal attention
    • staff get to know residents individually
    • individualized/personal care
    • great food
    • positive referral experiences

    Cons

    • small rooms
    • limited activities
    • residents lack autonomy over activities
    • staff issues
    • owner problems
    • caregiver problems
    • reports of poor care quality
    • high cost
    • service failures
    • reported resident death

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment across the reviews is mixed but strongly centered on a small, home-like setting that produces polarized experiences. Many reviewers emphasize an intimate, family-style environment with staff who form close, personal relationships with residents. Several reviewers specifically call out exceptional or excellent care from staff, appreciation for individualized attention, and praise for the meals (notably prepared by the owner) and a comfortable courtyard and piano that contribute to a domestic atmosphere. These positive comments present the home as a place where residents can receive personal, loving care in a small setting that feels like a private home rather than an institution.

    Care quality is a primary theme and is described in both glowing and critical terms. Multiple summaries praise the caregiving team as exceptional, noting that staff get to know residents and provide individual attention and personal care. Some reviewers say they were fortunate to be referred here and call it the best care they have found. Conversely, a number of summaries report caregiver problems, staff issues, and outright poor care quality in at least some cases. There is also a serious negative report summarized as a resident death (noted as "wife passed away"), and other reports of service failure. In short, care quality appears inconsistent across different residents or time periods: some families experience outstanding, individualized care, while others encounter lapses or problematic incidents.

    Staff and management impressions likewise vary. Positive descriptors include friendly, loving staff who engage residents (including a helper specifically noted for talking with residents). The owner’s hands-on role—especially in preparing meals—is cited as a positive by those who enjoyed the food and felt attended to. At the same time, reviewers mention staff issues and owner problems, suggesting concerns with management, supervision, or staffing stability in some instances. These mixed reports indicate that leadership and staff performance may be strong at times but have also produced friction or lapses that materially affected some residents.

    Facilities are consistently described as small and home-like, with amenities such as a courtyard and a piano that enhance the domestic feel. The small size is a double-edged theme: it enables personalized attention and a close-knit atmosphere, but it also brings constraints. Several reviewers note small rooms and limited on-site activities. Activity programming and resident autonomy are specific pain points — reviewers mention that activities are limited and that residents may lack control over whether or how they participate. For families prioritizing varied programming or larger private rooms, these limitations may be significant.

    Dining receives largely positive mentions: meals prepared by the owner are described as great food, which reinforces the home-like character and personalization of services. That owner involvement in dining contributes both to residents’ satisfaction and to the sense of a family-run home. However, the reviews do not provide detailed information about dietary accommodations, meal frequency, or special needs cuisine, so the positive commentary should be understood as subjective impressions rather than comprehensive nutritional evaluation.

    Cost and reliability concerns appear in the negative summaries. Reviewers cite high cost and service failures, indicating that some families felt they did not receive value commensurate with price. The presence of both highly positive and highly negative experiences suggests uneven delivery of services — when the home works well, families feel they are in the best possible place; when it does not, the shortfalls are serious enough to prompt strong complaint.

    Notable patterns: (1) small-scale and home-like qualities are repeatedly emphasized and are foundational to both praise and criticism; (2) staff are often the decisive factor in reviewers’ experiences — compassionate, attentive caregivers produce high satisfaction, while staff/owner/caregiver problems produce severe dissatisfaction; (3) activities and resident autonomy are recurring areas of concern, and small rooms are a practical limitation frequently mentioned; (4) dining and owner-prepared meals are consistent positive highlights. In summary, Say You're Home, Inc. appears to offer a very personal, homelike option that can deliver excellent individualized care and good meals for some residents, but prospective families should investigate consistency of staffing and management, space and activity offerings, and cost versus reliability before deciding. If personalization and a home atmosphere are priorities, this facility has strong positives; if consistently robust programming, larger private rooms, or guaranteed high reliability are needed, the mixed reports warrant caution and further inquiry.

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    About Say You're Home, Inc.

    Family Residential Care III is a senior living option in La Mesa, California, designed to provide a comfortable and supportive environment for older adults who require assistance with daily living. This care home is focused on offering personalized care in a residential setting, where the well-being and safety of residents are at the center of the services provided. The home does not operate as an assisted living, skilled nursing, or independent living facility, but rather caters to individuals who need a residential care solution that bridges the gap between living independently and requiring more intensive institutional care.

    Within Family Residential Care III, residents are offered choices between semi-private and private rooms, allowing them to select the arrangement that best fits their preferences and needs. The cost for these accommodations varies, with semi-private rooms and private rooms being available at different rates, aimed at providing options suitable for different financial situations. Residents can expect a supportive atmosphere where care is tailored to their individual requirements, ensuring comfort, respect, and dignity.

    Family Residential Care III is dedicated to helping seniors transition smoothly and comfortably into a living environment that feels like home. The emphasis is on creating a nurturing community that fosters social engagement, emotional support, and personalized attention. The facility does not provide skilled nursing, independent living, or specialized memory care services; instead, its focus remains on delivering high-quality residential care in a homelike environment. This makes it an appealing choice for families seeking an intimate setting where their loved ones can enjoy both assistance and independence.

    This care home welcomes individuals who require assistance with activities of daily living and seeks to create a sense of belonging among all residents. The team at Family Residential Care III is committed to supporting seniors during a significant life transition, offering a stable and caring environment where each person is valued. Residents are treated to a comfortable lifestyle with the reassurance that their daily needs will be met in a respectful, attentive manner.

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    State of California Inspection Reports

    18

    Inspections

    2

    Type A Citations

    0

    Type B Citations

    3

    Years of reports

    17 Apr 2025
    Found no deficiencies during an unannounced Required Annual Inspection. Observed a clean, safe home with functioning safety systems, proper food storage, secured medications, and complete confidential records stored in locked areas.
    • § 9058
    15 Apr 2025
    Found no deficiencies or licensing concerns at the home after the annual visit; the home was clean and safe, medications were secured, food supplies were adequate and properly stored, records were complete, and safety systems functioned.
    • § 9058
    24 Apr 2024
    Found no deficiencies. Premises were clean, safe, and well maintained, with functioning safety systems and complete, securely stored records.
    24 Apr 2024
    Found no deficiencies after an unannounced annual review of the premises; safety systems, cleanliness, furnishings, food storage, medications, and records were in good order, and interviews with staff and residents revealed no concerns.
    24 Apr 2024
    Confirmed that the facility met all required health, safety, and licensing standards, with no deficiencies observed during the inspection.
    24 Apr 2024
    Reviewed by the Department confirmed that the facility met all safety, sanitation, and staffing requirements, with no deficiencies observed during the inspection.
    18 Oct 2023
    Identified one bedridden resident in Bedroom 4 under the approved six-resident fire clearance; five non-ambulatory residents were in care and the updated floor plan matched the current layout. No deficiencies were cited.
    18 Oct 2023
    Confirmed that the facility's capacity was successfully increased to allow one bedridden resident, who was properly assigned to Bedroom #4, with all changes consistent with the approved fire clearance. No deficiencies were noted during the visit.
    17 Jul 2023
    Found no evidence to support the allegation that a staff member stepped on the resident's foot causing injury, nor the allegation that staff entered the room to intimidate the resident into changing the story, based on interviews and record reviews. The resident had a foot wound under care, and no corroborating intimidation incidents were reported by outside sources.
    17 Jul 2023
    Reviewed resident records and conducted interviews, found no evidence that staff stepped on a resident's foot or verbally intimidated them regarding that incident. Concluded that the allegation of staff neglect and intimidation was unsubstantiated.
    25 Mar 2023
    Found compliance with applicable regulations during a pre-licensing visit; interiors and exteriors were clean, safe, and in good repair, with all safety and utility systems functioning. Training was provided, and management final review and approval remained pending.
    25 Mar 2023
    Confirmed that the facility's physical environment met all safety, sanitation, and regulatory standards during a pre-licensing inspection, and that the applicant successfully completed required training. The license application remains pending final review and approval.
    21 Feb 2023
    Confirmed the applicant/administrator’s identity and understanding of California Code Title 22 regulations, and obtained a signed LIC 809 with photo ID. Reviewed the applicant’s understanding of license type, resident populations, admissions, staffing and training, health-condition restrictions, general provisions, emergency preparedness, complaints and reporting, and pre-licensing readiness.
    21 Feb 2023
    Confirmed that the applicant participated in a competency interview covering facility operations, policies, staffing, health restrictions, emergency procedures, and licensing readiness, with identification verified and all necessary documentation obtained.
    09 May 2022
    Found an unannounced collateral visit conducted by a licensing analyst; the analyst greeted, identified themselves, and explained the purpose, with the licensee joining by phone. Interviewed a resident and staff, collected records related to an ongoing investigation into a separate licensed care facility; no deficiencies were cited, and an exit interview was conducted with the caregivers and licensee.
    09 May 2022
    Identified that no deficiencies were present during a surprise visit related to an investigation at another care facility, which included a brief tour and interviews, with the licensee later participating by phone.
    04 Mar 2022
    Found the premises clean, safe, and in good repair, with functioning safety equipment, proper water temperatures, adequate supplies, and secured medication storage. The license application remained pending final management approval.
    04 Mar 2022
    Confirmed that the facility met all licensing requirements during a pre-licensing inspection, with no issues found in safety, sanitation, or compliance aspects. The applicant received certification and was advised that final approval is pending management review.

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