Friendship Manor Nursing & Rehabilitation Center

    902 Euclid Ave, National City, CA, 91950
    • Assisted living
    • Memory care
    • Skilled nursing
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    1.0

    Unclean unsafe care, poor communication

    My mom was at this facility for 20 days. A few CNAs and therapists were compassionate and competent, but overall I found it alarming. Rooms, gowns and bathrooms were often filthy, messes left unclean, and privacy minimal with shared restrooms. Care was inconsistent and at times unsafe - delayed meds/insulin and therapy, falls, unresponsive nurses, undisclosed vaccine administration and a premature discharge without family approval. Communication and administration were poor, rushed and discourteous, with billing/insurance inflexibility and what felt like manipulated five-star reviews. Because of understaffing and systemic problems, I would not trust this facility with a loved one despite some excellent staff.

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Medication management
    • Mental wellness program

    Healthcare staffing

    • 12-16 hour nursing
    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Restaurant-style dining
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Air-conditioning
    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Private bathrooms
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Transportation

    • Community operated transportation
    • Transportation arrangement
    • Transportation arrangement (non-medical)

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Computer center
    • Dining room
    • Fitness room
    • Gaming room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space
    • Small library
    • Wellness center

    Community services

    • Concierge services
    • Fitness programs
    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Planned day trips
    • Resident-run activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    4.13 · 155 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      3.7
    • Staff

      4.2
    • Meals

      2.9
    • Amenities

      3.5
    • Value

      1.0

    Pros

    • Attentive, compassionate CNAs and nursing staff
    • Strong physical, occupational, and speech therapy programs
    • Engaged activities department with varied programming (bingo, cooking, live entertainment, religious activities)
    • Clean, well-maintained facility and grounds
    • Responsive maintenance and housekeeping reported by many reviewers
    • Successful rehabilitation outcomes and restored mobility/swallowing for some patients
    • Seamless admission/check-in and visitor processes for many guests
    • Friendly, professional front desk and administrative personnel
    • Dietitian-coordinated healthy meal options reported by some families
    • Comfortable, tastefully decorated common areas and waiting rooms
    • Individual staff members repeatedly praised by name for excellent care
    • Security measures and modern sign-in technology noted as positive by some
    • Short-stay and long-stay positive experiences with attentive clinicians
    • Supportive discharge planning and social work praised in several accounts
    • Positive, home-like atmosphere reported by multiple visitors

    Cons

    • Highly inconsistent quality of care across units/shifts
    • Allegations of neglect and verbal/physical abuse by staff and other patients
    • Delayed, missed, or improperly administered medications (including insulin and IV issues)
    • Hygiene problems in some rooms: soiled gowns, unclean bathrooms, fecal messes
    • Cold, small, or poor-quality meals and refusal to reheat food reported
    • Poor communication from staff, long phone hold times, and unresponsive physicians
    • Premature or poorly explained discharges without family consent or adequate planning
    • Staffing shortages leading to slow response to call lights and unmet needs
    • Safety incidents: falls, patient escape, police involvement, and inadequate monitoring
    • Inconsistent infection-control practices and inconsistent PPE use
    • Allegations of manipulated/fake five-star reviews intended to mislead
    • Shared rooms with multiple patients leading to privacy concerns
    • Front-desk/technology issues (on-hold calls, connectivity problems, intrusive sign-in tech)
    • Management unresponsive, rude, or punitive in some complaints
    • Billing, insurance, and payment-plan transparency issues
    • Delayed therapy referrals or missed therapy sessions for some patients
    • Inconsistent housekeeping—reports range from very clean to extremely unhygienic
    • Staff reassignment decisions that disrupted continuity of care
    • Lack of physician presence/availability on-site frequently noted
    • Discrepancies between praise for individual staff and overall facility/system failures

    Summary review

    Overall impression: The reviews of Friendship Manor Nursing & Rehabilitation Center are deeply mixed, presenting a facility that can deliver excellent clinical rehabilitation, compassionate bedside care, and a pleasant environment for some residents while simultaneously showing systemic weaknesses that have led to serious negative experiences for others. Many reviewers explicitly praise CNAs, therapists, activities staff, and maintenance teams by name and credit the facility with strong therapy outcomes, a clean atmosphere, and a welcoming, well-maintained campus. However, an equally large subset of reviewers report significant safety, hygiene, communication, and administrative problems. These divergent accounts suggest considerable variability in resident experience depending on unit assignment, shift staffing, or individual staff on duty.

    Care quality and staffing: A central theme is inconsistency in clinical care. Numerous accounts celebrate attentive, compassionate nursing assistants and skilled therapy teams who produced measurable improvements in mobility and swallowing for patients. Physical, occupational, and speech therapy are repeatedly called out as strengths; specific therapists and PT/OT programs are praised for returning patients to function. Conversely, a substantial number of reviews document understaffing, slow or nonresponsive care (long waits for call lights), delayed or missed medications including insulin and IV mismanagement, and instances where therapy referrals were delayed or therapy was not provided. Several reviewers described serious lapses in monitoring and clinical follow-up (e.g., lack of ER follow-up, IV not connected), and some reported that staff shortages or inattentiveness contributed to avoidable declines in health.

    Safety, abuse, and incident reports: Multiple reviewers alleged serious safety incidents: falls with inadequate supervision, patient escape requiring police involvement, verbal and physical abuse by staff or other patients, and premature or unsafe discharges without family approval. There are also reports about inconsistent infection control (PPE usage), a patient contracting COVID twice, and at least one allegation of vaccine administration without disclosure. These are high-severity concerns and recur frequently enough in the reviews to warrant attention and potential regulatory scrutiny.

    Cleanliness and facilities: Many reviewers commend the facility’s cleanliness, well-kept grounds, tastefully decorated common spaces, and responsive maintenance/housekeeping. Others—sometimes within the same corpus of reviews—describe extremely unhygienic rooms, soiled gowns, unclean shared bathrooms, and fecal messes left unaddressed. This split indicates that cleanliness and housekeeping performance may vary by wing, shift, or specific staff teams. Facility amenities, outdoor patios, and therapy spaces receive favorable comments, while interior wear-and-tear (damaged flooring, dated finishes) was noted by a few.

    Dining and nutrition: Dining experiences are highly variable. Several reviewers state meals are healthy, dietitian-coordinated, and well-portionized, while many others complain about cold food, small portions, poor taste, refusal to reheat, and missed snacks (notably before dialysis). These mixed reports suggest that dining quality may be inconsistent between meal periods, dietary staff, or patient diets.

    Activities and social environment: The activities program is frequently praised: bingo, live entertainers, horse racing games, cooking classes, religious services, dog visits, and other group events were highlighted as meaningful engagement that improved resident morale. Multiple reviewers credited the activities director for keeping residents engaged and happy.

    Administration, communication, and admissions/discharges: There are strong positive experiences with admissions, check-in/out, and specific administrators (names like Shayne and Tina appear positively). At the same time, there are many complaints about poor communication from administration and clinical leadership: long phone wait times, unreturned calls, rude or defensive responses, and perceived unwillingness to address complaints. Discharge planning is another recurring problem — some families praised coordinated discharge planning and social work, while others reported rushed discharge explanations, premature discharges without family consent, unclear billing/payment options, and lack of follow-up.

    Reputation, reviews, and transparency: Several reviewers allege manipulation of online ratings (staff-produced five-star reviews) and question the authenticity of positive reviews, which undermines trust. Privacy concerns were raised about invasive sign-in technology (face-recognition cameras and extensive personal data collection) and about shared rooms that compromise dignity for some residents.

    Patterns and notable contradictions: The reviews display a clear pattern of high variance: strong, heartfelt praise for individual caregivers and certain departments (therapy, activities, housekeeping on some shifts) coexists with reports of neglect, safety events, and systemic communication failures. This suggests operational inconsistency—excellent outcomes are possible when care teams are well-staffed and engaged, but risks increase when staffing, leadership response, or processes falter.

    Recommendations for prospective families and administrators: Based on the patterns in these reviews, prospective residents and families should perform targeted inquiries during tours—ask about staffing ratios by shift, frequency of physician rounds, medication administration safeguards (esp. insulin/IV), call-light response times, recent incidents or state survey results, discharge planning protocols, infection-control practices, and dining sample. Request to observe meal service and visit during different shifts. Administrators should prioritize transparent incident reporting, consistent staffing, improved communication protocols (phone responsiveness, follow-up after ER transfers), standardized infection control and medication administration training, and an audit of online review integrity. Addressing the variability in cleanliness, timely medication delivery, and timely therapy/referral processes would reduce many of the negative experiences described.

    Bottom line: Friendship Manor appears capable of delivering excellent rehabilitation and compassionate bedside care in many cases—especially in therapy and activities—but there are repeated, serious reports of neglect, inconsistent hygiene, medication delays, communication failures, safety incidents, and administrative shortcomings. Experiences appear to be highly contingent on unit, shift, and individual staff; therefore careful, on-site evaluation and specific questioning are essential before placement, and systemic operational improvements are warranted to resolve the recurring high-severity issues documented by reviewers.

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    About Friendship Manor Nursing & Rehabilitation Center

    Friendship Manor Nursing & Rehabilitation Center sits as a 104-bed skilled nursing facility that's focused mostly on helping people who need care after leaving the hospital, and really, this place has a lot to offer in a quiet, steady way, with a fully contained therapy unit that has its own therapists along with round-the-clock licensed nursing staff and trained nursing assistants who help with medication, treatments, and all those everyday needs like dressing, bathing, grooming, and even just getting around. There's an Adult Residential Facility for folks who need a home-like setting, and the center also includes Assisted Living, Memory Care, and Independent Living options, so whether it's someone who needs a little help each day or someone who needs more support, there's a way to get care here. The center's got a Mental Health Rehabilitation Center, a secured 36-bed Special Treatment Unit with on-site psychiatric and psychological care, and it handles substance recovery and behavioral health through special programs, which really helps people dealing with more than just physical needs.

    Meals are all made in-house by a staff that bakes bread fresh, whips up desserts from scratch, and slow-cooks soups, with a menu that's dietitian-approved and meets California State nutrition standards, and folks can even tailor their meals or pick where they want to eat, whether that's in their rooms, outdoors, or at group dinners. The center is big on connection, so residents can join in for movie nights, family dinners by candlelight, bingo, casino games, live music, religious services, pet therapy, and arts and crafts-there's a lot going on most days, and there's even a garden for those who like to be outside and a library with books on tape for quiet moments.

    Every room comes with personal cable TV and a telephone, wireless internet, and there's staff to help with laundry and cleaning too, while the building's got guest parking, safety features like sprinklers and handicap access, and a salon-barbershop for people who want to feel fresh. The facility lets families visit and get involved, with group activities for families and education nights, trying to make sure everyone feels comfortable and welcome. For those who need it, the center helps with feeding and getting from place to place, offers transportation services, and covers a wide range of medical needs, including podiatry and wound care.

    Community reviews hover around the middle, with a sentiment rating of 3.3 out of 5 and a value score of 3.2 out of 5, so people seem to have had mixed experiences but, all things considered, the focus here stays on kindness, competence, and compassion, with staff who try to give everyone enough attention and help folks stay as independent as they can for as long as possible. Friendship Manor Nursing & Rehabilitation Center keeps things simple and steady, looking to make life a little bit easier, safer, and friendlier for seniors in need of care, whether they're here for a short stay or calling it home.

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