Pricing ranges from
    $4,519 – 5,422/month

    Bethany Living Senior Care

    5135 Charlington Ct, Frederick, MD, 21703
    4.1 · 14 reviews
    • Independent living
    • Assisted living
    • Memory care
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    4.0

    Clean, bright facility; limited care

    I toured this facility for my mom and was impressed - very clean, huge bright rooms (five big windows) with views of flowers and wildlife, warm meals, and a friendly, compassionate staff and owner who were easy to talk to. Residents looked happy and well cared for in a private, pleasant community. However, they don't offer respite care, memory-care capabilities seemed limited, AC was often off and activities were sparse, so it wasn't the right fit for our needs.

    Pricing

    $4,519+/moSemi-privateAssisted Living
    $5,422+/mo1 BedroomAssisted Living

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Coordination with health care providers
    • Medication management

    Healthcare staffing

    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Transportation

    • Transportation arrangement (medical)
    • Transportation to doctors appointments

    Community services

    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    4.07 · 14 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      3.8
    • Staff

      4.4
    • Meals

      4.5
    • Amenities

      5.0
    • Value

      4.1

    Pros

    • friendly, polite, and compassionate staff
    • owner is helpful, kind, and easy to talk to
    • clean facility and well-maintained rooms
    • private setting and good neighborhood location
    • large/huge rooms with big windows and pleasant nature views
    • warm, appealing meals and good food presentation
    • residents appear happy and well cared for in many reports
    • sense of community and 'home away from home' atmosphere
    • activities and programming reported positively by some reviewers
    • overall excellent care reported by multiple reviewers

    Cons

    • claims of memory care but lacking capability or appropriate support
    • air conditioning reportedly rarely on; staff and residents seen sweating
    • insufficient or hardly any activities reported by some
    • does not offer respite care
    • at least one report of a very negative/miserable experience advising to avoid
    • inconsistent experiences across reviewers (some excellent, some poor)

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment across the review summaries is mixed but leans positive: multiple reviewers praise the facility for its cleanliness, large private rooms with attractive views (including mentions of five big windows and wildlife like bunnies and squirrels), warm meals that look and smell good, and a caring, friendly staff. The owner is repeatedly called helpful, kind, and easy to communicate with. Several reviewers describe the place as a warm, home-like environment where residents are happy and well cared for, noting a good community and favorable location. These positive points — clean facility, compassionate staff, good food, roomy accommodations, and a welcoming atmosphere — are consistent themes in the majority of summaries.

    However, there are significant and specific concerns raised by other reviewers that create an important counterweight to the positive accounts. The most serious recurring issues are related to memory care: at least one reviewer states that although the facility claims to provide memory care, it lacks the capability to do so adequately. This reviewer also reported environmental and comfort problems — notably that the air conditioning was rarely on, causing staff and residents to sweat — and a lack of activities, describing the experience as miserable and advising others to avoid the facility. Additionally, the facility does not offer respite care, which may make it unsuitable for families seeking short-term or transitional care options.

    A notable pattern is inconsistency of experience. While many reviewers describe 'excellent care', 'amazing care', and 'best place' impressions, others report very negative experiences around key issues (memory care competence, temperature control, and activity programming). This suggests variability either over time, between different units or shifts, or between expectations of families and the services actually provided. Activities are another mixed area: some reviewers praise activities and programming, while at least one strongly states there are hardly any activities, indicating that engagement offerings may be uneven or inconsistently delivered.

    Facility specifics are largely positive: multiple mentions of very clean spaces, large rooms, private settings, and pleasant natural views paint a picture of a comfortable physical environment. Dining is also highlighted positively with mentions of warm, appetizing meals. Staff and management receive strong positive comments in many summaries — kind, compassionate, and approachable — which is an important asset for resident care and family communication.

    In contrast, the operational concerns (air conditioning not consistently used, inadequate memory care capability, no respite care option, and variable activity programming) are concrete issues that prospective residents and families should verify in person. Given the mixed reports, it would be prudent for families to ask targeted questions and do on-site checks: confirm the facility’s specific memory care credentials and staffing/training, observe temperature and comfort at different times of day, request a sample activities schedule and speak with activity staff, confirm respite care policies, and visit multiple times to gauge consistency.

    In summary, Bethany Living Senior Care receives multiple strong endorsements for its cleanliness, physical environment, food, and the kindness of staff and owner, producing a comforting, home-like atmosphere for many residents. At the same time, there are serious, specific complaints — most notably around memory care capability, air conditioning/comfort, and inconsistent activity programming — that create a mixed overall picture. Prospective residents and families should weigh the positive reports heavily but also proactively verify the facility’s memory-care services, environmental comfort, and activity offerings to ensure they match the family’s needs and expectations.

    Location

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    About Bethany Living Senior Care

    Bethany Living Senior Care sits in a quiet and friendly neighborhood in Frederick, Maryland, and the place really feels like home instead of a big facility, since it only serves up to eight residents at once and has a staff that's both sincere and attentive, where folks look after each other in a calm, supportive space that's much like a family. Residents have choices like private or semi-private rooms, including 1-bedroom units, and those rooms can come with private baths or showers that are wheelchair accessible, and there's always a focus on privacy along with personalized care plans, where licensed staff help with things ranging from dressing, grooming, and bathing to medication reminders and support for mobility, even for people who need lifts or who have diabetes, incontinence, or are at risk of wandering. Meals are prepared fresh every day with options for kosher and vegetarian diets, and people can eat together or have room service if that's easier, and guests are welcome during meals too, so there's a social side to things if folks want it, and the team encourages independence while making sure help's always there when needed.

    Bethany Living Senior Care also has memory care services for seniors with Alzheimer's or other dementias, so there are special activities, daily monitoring, and secure grounds to keep everyone safe, plus a nurse on staff part-time, a doctor on call, and visiting health professionals like a podiatrist or occupational therapist who help manage everything from wounds to therapy needs. Residents can enjoy clean indoor and outdoor common areas, an outside patio for fresh air, a dining room, WiFi and cable TV, and special amenities like a salon and a fitness center, with regular activities such as arts and crafts, musical groups, and game nights, and outings to nearby parks like Diamond Farms Park.

    The community offers transportation for shopping or appointments, and services like housekeeping, laundry, maintenance, and linen changes are always included, so no one has to worry about chores, and everything's covered in one cost-effective, all-inclusive rate-insurance, checks, and VA benefits are accepted for payment. Pets are welcome, people receive help with daily routines, and for those who need a short-term stay, respite care is there, plus hospice and skilled nursing support. Facilities carry state licensing, with license number 10a10069-c, and reviews are managed with a third party for accuracy, so new families get clear information, a chance for a tour, and the peace of mind of a small, licensed, and caring team. Residents stay as long as they want-long-term or short-term-and the community always strives to enhance independence while giving real support and comfort as every senior's needs change.

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