Episcopal SeniorLife - Ashley Woods

    400 YMCA Wy, Penfield, NY, 14526
    4.0 · 5 reviews
    • Assisted living
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    5.0

    Father blossomed in caring community

    I moved my father here after an unsafe memory-care stay, and he has truly blossomed. He's more energetic, social at meals and activities, conversational again, and has regained his sense of humor and independence. He has his own room with familiar furniture he could decorate, and we no longer worry about laundry, cleaning, shopping or meal prep. Staff and environment are caring and welcoming, activities and food are excellent - I'm relieved and grateful.

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    4.00 · 5 reviews

    Overall rating

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    5. 1
    • Care

      3.0
    • Staff

      3.0
    • Meals

      4.0
    • Amenities

      5.0
    • Value

      1.0

    Pros

    • Safe environment (as reported by some reviewers)
    • Caring and welcoming staff (as reported by some reviewers)
    • Increased resident independence
    • Improved resident energy and engagement
    • Improved quality of life for some residents
    • Re-engagement in conversation and social life
    • Return of humor and enjoyment of life
    • Strong social interaction at meals and activities
    • Wide range of daily activities that residents enjoy
    • Relief from household chores (no laundry/cleaning/shopping/meal prep)
    • Private rooms with familiar furniture and ability to decorate
    • Good food

    Cons

    • Unsafe practices in memory care (as reported)
    • Staff quality concerns and inconsistent staff behavior
    • Residents treated in an infantilizing manner
    • Staff arguing with or reprimanding residents
    • Medication given without informing family
    • General safety concerns
    • Poor communication with families
    • Need to move to another memory care facility (for at least one resident)
    • Inconsistent experience across units or time

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment in the reviews is mixed but points to two clear and contrasting patterns. On the positive side, multiple reviewers describe Episcopal SeniorLife - Ashley Woods as a place where residents have been able to regain energy, independence, and enjoyment of life. Several comments emphasize a welcoming and caring environment in which residents have become more socially engaged — participating in meals and activities, conversing again, asking questions, and recovering aspects of their personality such as a sense of humor. Practical benefits are also noted: residents are relieved of household tasks (laundry, cleaning, shopping, meal preparation), have private rooms they can personalize with familiar furniture, and enjoy a program of daily activities and generally well-regarded food. These positive comments focus on quality-of-life improvements, stronger social interaction, and meaningful activity programming that have allowed some residents to “blossom.”

    Conversely, a distinct set of negative concerns appears in the reviews, particularly centered on memory care. Reported problems include unsafe memory care practices, staff quality concerns, and instances of residents being treated like toddlers — including staff arguing with or reprimanding residents. One reviewer explicitly reported medication being administered without family notification, and there are repeated notes about poor communication and broader safety concerns. These issues were serious enough in at least one case that the family moved the resident to a different, “proper” memory care facility and reported better outcomes after the move. This contrast suggests that experiences can vary dramatically depending on the unit, the resident’s needs, or the time period.

    Breaking the themes down by area: Care quality and staff behavior are the most polarizing topics. Positive reports credit staff with creating a caring, welcoming atmosphere that fosters independence; negative reports allege unprofessional or inappropriate treatment in memory care and failures around medication and safety. Communication and management practices are another recurrent theme: while some families feel informed and see improvements, others cite poor communication and lack of transparency (for example, not being told about medication). Safety is flagged explicitly by multiple reviewers, and the single most severe action described — moving a resident to a different memory care facility — underscores that safety and clinical appropriateness are critical concerns for at least some residents.

    Facilities, amenities, dining, and activities receive predominantly positive mentions. Reviewers praise the availability of daily activities, social opportunities during meals, the ability for residents to personalize their rooms, and the quality of food. Those positive notes tie directly to reported improvements in mood, energy, and social engagement. This consistency suggests that the community’s physical environment and activity programming are strengths that contribute to improved quality of life for many residents.

    Notable patterns and caveats: The reviews collectively suggest inconsistent experiences — strong improvements in quality of life for some residents coexisting with serious safety and staff-related complaints in memory care for others. That inconsistency may reflect differences between care units (e.g., general senior living versus memory care), staffing variations, or episodic problems. Families evaluating this community should pay particular attention to the specific unit their loved one would join, ask direct questions about memory care procedures, medication administration and notification policies, staff training and ratios, incident reporting, and communication practices. Asking to speak with families of current memory care residents and requesting recent inspection/incident records could help clarify whether the negative reports reflect isolated incidents or systemic issues.

    In summary, Episcopal SeniorLife - Ashley Woods appears to deliver significant quality-of-life benefits for many residents through activities, social opportunities, dining, and a caring environment — but there are serious, recurring concerns reported about memory care, staff behavior, medication communication, and safety. Prospective residents and their families should weigh the strong positive reports about daily life and engagement against the negative reports about memory-care practices, and should investigate unit-specific policies and oversight before making placement decisions.

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    About Episcopal SeniorLife - Ashley Woods

    Episcopal SeniorLife - Ashley Woods is a senior living community on an 8.4-acre development at 400 YMCA Way in Penfield, NY, right next to the Eastside YMCA, with 70 homes set up as 40 moderately priced assisted living apartments and two small houses with 15 studios each for memory care, so families find options for different needs under one roof, and folks who want independent living get apartments with big windows, maintenance-free living, and easy access to Wi-Fi, cable, central air, and their own kitchen with a walk-in shower in the bathroom, while those needing assisted living get help with things like dressing, meals, medication, personal care, housekeeping, laundry, and even transportation, all with a nurse on staff every day and services available 24/7 if something happens during the night or on a weekend. The memory care community sits in those two smaller houses, each with 15 studio apartments, and is made for people living with Alzheimer's or other types of dementia-caregivers trained in memory care work there, keeping residents secure, calm, and involved in activities designed to ease anxiety and help with memory, plus residents decorate rooms with personal furniture to keep things familiar, which seems to help. Activities happen every day to get people moving and socializing, and there's a strong focus on compassionate support and respect, not just for the residents but also for their families, since there are support groups and education programs for people caring for loved ones with memory loss. If someone needs more care, there are skilled nursing services too, including short-term medical care, physical therapy, wound care, and rehab, so moving between levels of care doesn't mean having to leave friends or move far away. Meals get made fresh each day by a chef and meal planner in the dining room, and many residents like the community center, café, barber and beauty shop, and outdoor patios and gardens for gathering or enjoying fresh air, plus there's a village green for events, not to mention close pets are allowed and the building's all set up for folks who need handicapped access. Ashley Woods has earned the Best of Senior Living Award and the Best of Senior Living All Star Award, which says something about how staff treat people with joy and helpfulness and go out of their way to make it feel like home, and daily life at Ashley Woods has a lot of choices so residents can be as independent as possible but get help when they need it, which is what a continuing care retirement community means here, since people age in place as health and needs change, all on one campus.

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