Pricing ranges from
    $5,383 – 6,459/month

    Legend Assisted Living at Rivendell

    13200 S May Ave, Oklahoma City, OK, 73170
    • Assisted living
    • Memory care
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    5.0

    Warm caring dementia-savvy memory care

    I placed my dad in Rivendell Memory Care and we're very pleased - the staff are warm, caring and dementia-savvy, the life-enrichment team keeps residents engaged with great activities, and the dining is excellent in a clean, home-like facility. COVID safety and communication were strong and my dad has truly thrived here. Downsides: rooms are smaller than expected and it's on the pricey side, with occasional housekeeping or weekend staffing lapses, but overall I recommend it for quality memory care and peace of mind.

    Pricing

    $5,383+/moSemi-privateAssisted Living
    $6,459+/mo1 BedroomAssisted Living

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Coordination with health care providers
    • Hospice waiver
    • Medication management
    • Mental wellness program

    Healthcare staffing

    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Memory care community services

    • Dementia waiver
    • Mild cognitive impairment
    • Specialized memory care programming

    Transportation

    • Transportation arrangement (medical)
    • Transportation to doctors appointments

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Dining room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space

    Community services

    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Resident-run activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    4.53 · 139 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      4.3
    • Staff

      4.5
    • Meals

      4.4
    • Amenities

      4.2
    • Value

      2.2

    Pros

    • friendly, caring, and attentive staff
    • long‑tenured employees and high staff retention
    • strong one‑on‑one rapport between staff and residents
    • compassionate and knowledgeable nursing staff
    • specialized memory‑care programs and secure units
    • weekly doctor visits and on‑site clinical services
    • high quality, chef‑driven dining (Chef Sabir frequently praised)
    • restaurant‑style dining rooms with linen tablecloths and convivial atmosphere
    • meals tailored to dietary needs and nutrition‑focused menus
    • fresh, well‑seasoned, beautifully plated food
    • abundant and varied life‑enrichment activities (games, crafts, outings)
    • structured activity programs and daily exercise classes
    • frequent outings and community events (museum trips, scenic drives)
    • clean, well‑maintained and attractive facility and grounds
    • comfortable, home‑like ambiance with fireplaces and courtyards
    • enclosed/outdoor areas and secure outdoor space
    • well‑organized dining and common areas with natural light
    • ability to age in place and multiple levels/phased care
    • supportive, involved administration in many accounts
    • helpful move‑in support and individualized transition planning
    • good medication management reported by some families
    • weekly housekeeping and laundry services (noted positively by many)
    • therapy services available (PT/OT) and on‑site rehab options
    • peace of mind for many families and strong overall satisfaction
    • personalized meal accommodations and responsive kitchen staff
    • warm, family‑like community culture and social atmosphere
    • numerous amenities (salon/barbershop, libraries, activity rooms)
    • clean smell‑free environment consistently noted
    • safe, seniors‑focused delivery and logistical support

    Cons

    • high cost / expensive compared with other options
    • small resident rooms and studios (limited square footage)
    • inconsistent housekeeping: rooms/sheets not always cleaned regularly
    • weekend staffing shortages and lower weekend supervision
    • reports of inadequate front‑line staff training and communication
    • periodic maintenance lapses and delayed repairs
    • instances of poor management responsiveness or non‑responsiveness
    • safety incidents reported (theft, abuse allegations, medication errors)
    • poor communication during outbreaks or critical incidents
    • some reports of neglect or residents left isolated from meals
    • locked memory‑care restrictions and limited outings at times
    • unexpected fee increases and high additional charges
    • variability in staff behavior (cell phone use, bullying, harassment)
    • occasional food availability problems and repetitive menus
    • privacy concerns in shared rooms or roommate situations
    • reports of staff turnover and sudden nurse departures
    • some families noted inadequate in‑room amenities or furnishings
    • reports of short‑staffed maintenance/housekeeping overall
    • conflicting reports on cleanliness—many praise, others report dirty rooms
    • visitation restrictions during COVID and poor pandemic communication

    Summary review

    Overall impression: Reviews for Legend Assisted Living at Rivendell are predominantly positive, with many families praising the compassionate interpersonal care, high‑quality dining, attractive facility, and abundant activities. A large number of reviewers specifically highlight long‑tenured, friendly staff who know residents by name, strong rapport between caregivers and residents, and life‑enrichment programs that keep residents engaged and socially active. Food and dining are repeatedly called out as a major strength: an on‑site chef (often named), restaurant‑style dining rooms with linens, and nutritious, well‑seasoned meals customized for dietary needs generate frequent praise.

    Care quality and staff: Many accounts describe nursing and caregiving staff as attentive, safety‑focused, and willing to go the “extra mile” for residents. Reviewers mention weekly doctor visits, on‑site clinical services, and therapy options as valuable supports. The facility’s ability to provide multiple levels of care (including memory care and some on‑site physician or therapy services) and to allow residents to age in place is an important plus for families seeking long‑term continuity. At the same time, reviewers report variability: weekday staff are often described as excellent while weekend staffing and supervision are noted as inconsistent. Several reviews describe short‑staffing, lapses in front‑line supervision, and concerns about training or communication among staff — issues that some families felt created safety or care risks. A minority of reviews are serious in tone, citing medication errors, abrupt nurse departures, and instances where families moved loved ones due to safety concerns.

    Dining and nutrition: Dining emerges as a standout feature. Multiple reviews emphasize a talented chef and kitchen staff that provide fresh, well‑prepared, nutrition‑focused meals. The restaurant‑style dining environment (linen tablecloths, plated meals, staff interaction) is repeatedly mentioned as enhancing residents’ quality of life. Reviewers appreciate that meals are tailored to dietary restrictions and that the kitchen is approachable. A few reviewers, however, mentioned repetitive menus, occasional shortages/runouts of food, small portions, or a preference for different proteins (e.g., more beef requested than chicken).

    Activities and social life: Rivendell’s life enrichment programming is frequently described as robust and varied — daily exercise classes, arts and crafts, games, music, scenic drives, museum outings, and holiday/party events are common examples. Families often say activities are plentiful and that staff create a lively, family‑like social culture. Memory‑care offerings receive praise for structured small‑group activities, phased severity levels, and dementia‑focused staff training. COVID restrictions did reduce some outings and larger group activities for several months, and a few families expressed a desire to return to pre‑pandemic levels of trips and social programming.

    Facility, maintenance and cleanliness: The physical plant is commonly described as beautiful, upscale, and well‑maintained — clean common areas, courtyards, fireplaces, and bright dining rooms are cited repeatedly. Many reviewers emphasize a home‑like, odor‑free environment. However, there are inconsistent reports: some families say rooms and linens were not cleaned for extended periods, carpets were not cleaned, or repairs were delayed (including makeshift fixes like taping a leaking door). These maintenance and housekeeping inconsistencies appear episodic but significant when they occur, and they contribute to concerns about value and operational reliability.

    Management, communication and business practices: Reviews about administration are mixed. Numerous families find administration approachable, proactive, and supportive during transitions; others report poor communication during critical events (COVID outbreaks, staff departures, a salmonella outbreak) and unsatisfactory responses to complaints. Financially, the community is repeatedly described as expensive; some reviewers feel the cost is justified by the quality of care and amenities, while others cite unexpected fee increases, high room‑service charges, and perceived poor value when housekeeping or staffing are lacking. A few reviewers also allege troubling administrative behavior in severe incidents (alleged cover‑ups of staff abuse or theft), which, although reported by a minority, are serious red flags in those accounts.

    Safety and concerning patterns: While many reviews endorse Rivendell as a safe, secure environment (especially in memory care units with secure doors and trained staff), a subset of reviews raises troubling safety concerns: thefts, abuse allegations, confrontational staff behavior, and medication errors. Other safety‑related complaints include minimal weekend supervision, reports that front‑line staff are minimally trained, and situations where families felt the facility did not adequately notify them of infectious outbreaks or staff departures. These reports appear to be less common than the positive accounts but are serious where they occur and merit careful scrutiny by prospective families.

    Room size, amenities and value: Several reviewers note that resident rooms — especially studio options — can be small (one figure cited ~350 sq ft), and some units are shared with privacy concerns. There are mixed reports about included furnishings and in‑room amenities: some families noted a lack of included furniture, no in‑room laundry or dishwashing, and additional charges for services. Combined with the overall premium pricing, this leads some families to question overall value when service inconsistencies arise.

    Patterns and recommendations for prospective families: The reviews show a clear pattern of strong strengths (staff warmth and personal attention, outstanding dining, abundant activities, attractive facility, and memory‑care programming) tempered by operational vulnerabilities (staffing variability, housekeeping and maintenance lapses, occasional management communication failures, and isolated serious safety incidents). Prospective families should prioritize direct questions during touring and contracting: ask about weekend staffing levels and supervision, staff training and turnover rates, housekeeping and linen change frequency, incident/notification policies (infection control and theft/abuse reporting), specific fees and refund/fee‑increase policies, and the precise size and included amenities of the unit being offered. Visiting during a mealtime and an activity, and speaking with both weekday and weekend staff or residents’ family members, can help corroborate the generally positive themes and detect any operational issues.

    Conclusion: Legend Assisted Living at Rivendell is frequently described as an upscale, warm, and engaging community with a standout dining program, deeply caring staff, and rich life‑enrichment options. Many families report peace of mind and high satisfaction with care, especially for memory care residents and those who value strong social programs and chef‑driven meals. However, recurring concerns — notably around cost, room size, housekeeping consistency, weekend staffing, and a minority of serious safety/management complaints — mean that experiences can vary. A careful tour that specifically probes staffing, housekeeping, safety incident history, and contractual fee terms will help families determine whether Rivendell’s strong personal and culinary strengths align with their expectations and risk tolerance.

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    About Legend Assisted Living at Rivendell

    Legend at Rivendell is an exceptional senior living residence in Oklahoma City, offering both assisted living and memory care services in a beautifully appointed, single-story campus filled with natural light and thoughtful design details. Conveniently located near the city’s premier Rivendell neighborhood, this community has been designed to maximize residents’ independence and comfort at every turn. Every aspect of the environment—from low pile carpeting to reduce fall risks, to carefully chosen color palettes that assist those with low vision challenges—reflects an unwavering commitment to enhancing quality of life for seniors.

    Residents at Legend at Rivendell enjoy a vibrant and inclusive social atmosphere, where neighbors quickly become friends and every day presents new opportunities for connection and engagement. The busy event and program calendar, developed by dedicated Life Enrichment Directors, ensures there is always something fresh and enjoyable, whether it’s group outings, happy hour socials, history lectures, paint pouring workshops, or festive open houses. The community offers large group, small group, and individual activities such as garden planning with guest speakers from local nurseries, creative arts led by guest artists like Teri Manning Gardner from The Craft Cottage, and hands-on, interactive events including movie nights, tailgating parties, and Oktoberfest celebrations. Social connection is at the heart of the Legend lifestyle, fostering physical and mental well-being.

    The culinary experience at Legend at Rivendell is a true highlight, with the Gold Leaf Dining program emphasizing restaurant-style, nutritious, and seasonal meals that delight all the senses. Residents can choose from a menu of enticing entrees, enjoy themed meals and even contribute their own favorite recipes. Dining is more than just a meal—it’s a social experience where residents come together in elegant dining spaces, share laughter and stories, and build lasting bonds over thoughtfully prepared cuisine, all overseen by Gold Leaf Chefs and dieticians who ensure that nutrition and hydration needs are always a priority.

    Personalized support is central to the assisted living offering at Legend at Rivendell. Here, residents receive the exact amount of help needed with activities of daily living, such as showering, dressing, grooming, medication management, and mobility assistance. Associates and licensed nursing staff are available around the clock to help residents maintain their independence and energy, while also responding promptly to emergencies should they arise. Thoughtful Companion Services provide both an extra helping hand and heartfelt companionship, whether it’s morning routines with an early bird, assistance with personal shopping, or friendly visits to share conversation and hobbies. Transportation is provided for appointments and activities, and professional housekeeping services ensure everyone can focus more on living brightly.

    Legend at Rivendell is renowned for its memory care services, which are meticulously designed for those living with Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia. Associates and caregivers receive in-depth training specific to memory-related conditions and tailor their approach to each resident’s individual journey. In memory care, families and residents are encouraged to bring personal touches to the environment, making it feel like home. Each resident’s story and history are honored, with team members building meaningful connections through personalized attention—such as singing favorite songs or remembering a preferred cup of tea. Innovative therapeutic interventions, like the award-winning use of the PARO robotic seal (approved by the FDA for biofeedback therapy), stimulate memory, soothe anxiety, and provide comfort through interactive, science-based engagement.

    Wellness at Legend at Rivendell extends beyond physical health, embracing mental, emotional, and spiritual care. Programs are designed to support holistic well-being, offering tailored exercise classes, educational seminars on topics like Medicare and estate planning, caregiver support groups, intergenerational activities, and spiritual nourishment through chapel services and Bible studies. The healthcare team develops individual care plans for every resident, regularly assessing and adjusting to ensure the best quality of life as needs evolve. Highlands, a distinctive neighborhood within Legend at Rivendell, provides enhanced care for residents who require a higher level of nursing support, offering a higher staff-to-resident ratio, private studio apartments, and additional wellness programming within a close-knit, dignified atmosphere.

    The suites and living spaces at Legend at Rivendell can be personalized with residents’ own furniture and mementos, supporting both privacy and community with various floor plans to fit different lifestyles and budgets. Apartments are equipped with kitchenettes, walk-in showers, emergency call systems, and individually controlled climate features for maximum comfort and security.

    At Legend at Rivendell, life is active, purposeful, and centered around the well-being of every individual. Residents and their families can be confident knowing that every detail of the environment, service, and programming has been carefully curated to provide an experience that elevates every day and supports independence, dignity, and connection.

    About Legend Senior Living

    Legend Assisted Living at Rivendell is managed by Legend Senior Living.

    Legend Senior Living was founded in 2001 by industry pioneer Tim Buchanan, who pioneered the assisted living concept across the nation nearly 30 years ago. Headquartered in Wichita, Kansas, the company remains a privately held family business currently led by two generations of the Buchanan family, including President Matt Buchanan. Legend Senior Living currently owns and operates over 70 residences across seven states: Colorado, Florida, Kansas, Missouri, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, and Texas. The company has experienced significant growth in recent years, adding 11 communities in 2023, eight in 2024, and eight completed by mid-2025.

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