Pricing ranges from
    $5,135 – 6,162/month

    Essex House by American Retirement Homes Inc.

    17976 Tidewater Trail, Tappahannock, VA, 22560
    4.7 · 13 reviews
    • Assisted living
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    5.0

    Warm caring clean cozy facility

    My grandmother stayed here briefly and I was very pleased - Ginger Elliot and her staff were attentive, compassionate, and treated her (and our family) like family. The small, cozy facility feels home-like: immaculate common areas, clean private rooms with large baths, nice furnishings, courtyard and piano, and delicious on-site meals and activities. Staff went above and beyond with emotional support and loving care. The building shows its age (cracks/need for interior refurbishment) and Medicaid isn't accepted - monthly fees may exceed Social Security. Overall, a warm, caring hidden gem I highly recommend.

    Pricing

    $5,135+/moSemi-privateAssisted Living
    $6,162+/mo1 BedroomAssisted Living

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Coordination with health care providers
    • Medication management
    • Mental wellness program

    Healthcare staffing

    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Transportation

    • Transportation arrangement (medical)
    • Transportation to doctors appointments

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Dining room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space

    Community services

    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    4.69 · 13 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      5.0
    • Staff

      4.8
    • Meals

      4.5
    • Amenities

      4.3
    • Value

      2.0

    Pros

    • Caring, compassionate and attentive staff
    • Strong emotional support and family-like treatment
    • Home-like, small and cozy community atmosphere
    • Immaculate, clean and well-maintained rooms and common areas
    • Private large rooms with large private baths
    • Rooms can be furnished with residents' own belongings
    • Nicely furnished dining and living areas
    • Delicious on-site meals prepared in-house
    • Active social calendar and recreational activities (dancing, piano, courtyard events)
    • Administrator and staff specifically praised (Ginger and team)
    • Convenient location for families and near local landmarks (creek, hometown)
    • Residents presented neatly and facility has warm, inviting decorations

    Cons

    • Medicaid not accepted
    • Monthly fee may exceed Social Security income for some residents
    • Physical building shows signs of age (cracks in walls and ceilings)
    • Interior needs refurbishment, painting and some updating
    • Small facility means limited on-site amenities (no beauty salon)
    • Small size could limit capacity or availability

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment across the reviews is strongly positive, with repeated emphasis on exceptional, compassionate caregiving and a warm, home-like environment. Care quality is the standout theme: reviewers consistently describe staff as attentive, loving, respectful and going above and beyond for residents. Several comments note emotional support, hugs, and family-style treatment; family members felt included and supported, and specific staff and the administrator (Ginger) are singled out for praise. Even in difficult circumstances (for example, when a resident passed after a brief stay) reviewers framed the experience as positive because of the kindness and quality of care provided.

    Facilities and accommodations receive largely favorable comments. Many reviewers describe the facility as immaculate and clean, with private, large rooms and private baths; rooms can be furnished with residents' own belongings, contributing to the homelike feel. Common spaces — dining and living areas — are described as nicely furnished and warmly decorated, and details such as a piano, courtyard, and being located near a creek are mentioned as pleasant attributes. The overall aesthetic and cleanliness are recurring positives: reviewers use phrases like "beautiful and clean appearance," "homelike charm," and "neatly dressed resident," which suggests consistent attention to presentation and daily upkeep.

    Dining and activities are also frequently praised. Meals are characterized as delicious and prepared on-site rather than delivered, which reviewers view as a quality point. The community appears to maintain an active social program, with events, dancing ("dancing with Miss Dot"), piano music, and other socials that help residents feel at home and engaged. Reviewers explicitly note that residents enjoyed the activities and that the atmosphere is warm and inviting, supporting social connection and quality of life.

    Management and communication emerge positively as well. Multiple reviewers say staff were forthcoming about amenities, responsive, and supportive of family needs. The administrator and key team members are named and thanked, reinforcing a perception of good leadership and consistent staff culture. Reviewers also note convenient location for family visits, which is important for caregiver peace of mind and ongoing family involvement.

    Important caveats and patterns of concern should be noted. Financial accessibility is a clear limitation: several reviews state that Medicaid is not accepted and that Social Security income alone may not cover the monthly fee, which restricts access for lower-income seniors and influences placement decisions. Physically, while cleanliness is praised, a subset of reviews mention visible wear and tear — cracks in walls and ceilings, areas needing paint, and an overall sense that parts of the interior could use refurbishment or updating. These comments suggest that while daily maintenance is strong, some capital improvements have been deferred and the building shows its age in places.

    The small size of the community is both a benefit and a drawback. Reviewers repeatedly describe the facility as a "hidden gem" and appreciate the intimate, family-style environment that a smaller setting enables. At the same time, small scale means fewer on-site amenities (explicitly, no beauty salon) and potentially limited capacity or services compared with larger communities. Families should weigh the value of personalized care and close-knit staff relationships against potential limitations in services and future availability.

    In summary, Essex House by American Retirement Homes Inc. is repeatedly characterized by reviewers as a caring, clean, and intimate community with strong staff engagement, good leadership, pleasant dining, and meaningful activities. The principal negatives are financial accessibility (no Medicaid and costs exceeding Social Security for some) and some physical maintenance/upgrade needs. Prospective residents and families who prioritize compassionate staff, a homelike environment, and active social programming are likely to find this community a very good match; those who require Medicaid coverage, extensive on-site amenities, or a newly renovated interior should investigate further and consider budget and facility-condition implications before deciding.

    Location

    Map showing location of Essex House by American Retirement Homes Inc.

    About Essex House by American Retirement Homes Inc.

    Essex House by American Retirement Homes Inc. sits on a gentle knoll in Tappahannock, Virginia, with a big yellow building and a porch with hanging plants that looks out onto a green lawn, and the place feels friendly and a lot like home because it's small, family-oriented, and relaxed, the kind of spot where people know each other by name and the staff are always around, ready to help day or night. Residents get support that fits what they need, whether that means independent living for folks who like to do things on their own, memory care for people with confusion or wandering, or more hands-on help with things like bathing, dressing, or moving around if someone can't walk well. You'll find wheelchair access, non-ambulatory care, and caregivers who speak English, and there's a real focus on keeping everyone secure, with smoke detectors in each room, alarmed doors, and an emergency call system that gets a staff member's attention if needed.

    People who come here usually get their own private room with a private bath, and everything's furnished simply and comfortably, with options if you want a shared room, and chores like laundry and cleaning are handled by staff so daily routines are easier. Home-cooked meals are a big part of life, and they serve food in a central dining room, always paying attention to allergies or diabetes and changing up the menu so there's something for everyone, with snacks made fresh just like the meals. The community features living rooms to gather in, gardens and walking paths to sit out or stroll, an arts room for hobbies, scheduled activities like movie nights, and even a beauty salon or barber shop, so nobody needs to leave for a haircut if they don't want to, plus there are activities both onsite and out in town to keep things lively and social, along with rides provided when someone needs to go to an appointment or off-site outing.

    Transportation is available, parking is on site for those who drive, and moving in feels less stressful because the staff help new residents with the transition, even helping coordinate medical record transfers, downsizing tips, or tracking down financial aid options. Registered medication aides make sure each person takes medicine the right way, and health services can include things like help with incontinence, medication, and care for those who need hospice or are getting more frail. There's Wi-Fi, phones in the rooms, cable TV, and the staff are careful to give everyone a schedule that fits their routine, so people keep their independence as much as possible, even as they take part in scheduled community events, family gatherings, or spiritual devotions if they wish. The place's run by American Retirement Homes, Inc., which has over 56 years of senior care experience, and it's licensed by the Virginia Department of Social Services, so rules and safety get taken very seriously, while the community itself keeps a low-key, welcoming atmosphere where families and residents stay closely connected and support each other. Essex House aims to offer both short- and long-term stays, with help always close by, and they try to help residents keep doing the things they love, whether that's gardening, art, social activities, or just relaxing in one of the many common rooms or outside under the trees.

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