Delaware Veterans Home

    100 Delaware Veterans Blvd, Milford, DE, 19963
    3.6 · 12 reviews
    • Assisted living
    • Memory care
    • Skilled nursing
    AnonymousCurrent/former resident
    2.0

    Caring staff, administration severely inadequate

    I enjoy the activities, trips, music and my room, and many staff - especially Vernessa and a caring aide - were kind and prompt; their dementia care is excellent. But administration is inadequate, dishonest, and needs new leadership - the home has been cited and fined and admissions were even halted. I witnessed overmedication, weight loss, poor hygiene and neglect, with staff overworked and treated poorly under constant surveillance. It's expensive and caused me real emotional distress despite the caring frontline staff.

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Medication management
    • Mental wellness program

    Healthcare staffing

    • 12-16 hour nursing
    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Restaurant-style dining
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Air-conditioning
    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Private bathrooms
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Transportation

    • Community operated transportation
    • Transportation arrangement
    • Transportation arrangement (non-medical)

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Computer center
    • Dining room
    • Fitness room
    • Gaming room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space
    • Small library
    • Wellness center

    Community services

    • Concierge services
    • Fitness programs
    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Planned day trips
    • Resident-run activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    3.58 · 12 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      3.0
    • Staff

      3.0
    • Meals

      3.6
    • Amenities

      5.0
    • Value

      1.0

    Pros

    • Well-appointed rooms
    • Engaging musical activities
    • Prompt responsiveness from some staff
    • Kind and caring aides
    • Strong dementia care reported
    • Specific staff praised (Vernessa)
    • Varied activities and trips
    • Active social programs

    Cons

    • Inadequate administration
    • Administrator dishonest and manipulative
    • Regulatory citations and fines
    • Admissions halted by authorities
    • Resident neglect
    • Overmedication concerns
    • Allegations of medical mismanagement
    • Weight loss and poor hygiene among residents
    • Incontinence issues and diaper neglect
    • High costs for families
    • Emotional distress for residents and families
    • Unqualified and undertrained staff
    • Poor staff treatment and overwork
    • Excessive surveillance and dishonesty

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment in these review summaries is sharply mixed but leans toward serious concern. Several reviewers report positive experiences related to the physical environment, specific activities, and individual caregivers, yet a substantial and recurring set of negative themes focuses on leadership failures, regulatory problems, and neglect. The reviews paint a bifurcated picture: pockets of good frontline care and programming set against systemic administrative and clinical shortcomings that have resulted in regulatory action and significant family distress.

    Care quality and clinical concerns: Multiple reviews allege serious clinical problems including neglect, overmedication, and medical mismanagement. Reviewers describe residents losing weight, experiencing poor hygiene, and suffering from incontinence issues with diaper care being called out specifically. There are reports that doctors have raised concerns and that the facility has been cited and fined for harming residents. These are not isolated praise/critique outliers; the presence of regulatory citations and the reported halting of admissions point to problems that have reached an external oversight level. At the same time, some reviewers report excellent dementia care and timely responses from staff, indicating that clinical quality may vary widely depending on unit, shift, or individual caregiver.

    Staff performance and working conditions: Reviews repeatedly highlight that individual aides and care staff can be compassionate and effective — several comments singled out kind, prompt caregivers and named a specific employee (Vernessa) for praise. However, there is also a pattern of serious workforce problems: staff are described as undertrained or unqualified, overworked, and treated poorly (one reviewer described them as being 'treated as slaves'). This pattern suggests high staff stress and potential turnover, which can directly affect continuity and quality of care. The coexistence of praised individuals and broad complaints about staff qualifications and treatment suggests that strong performers are doing work despite systemic staffing and management issues.

    Management, transparency, and regulatory issues: Administration is the most criticized area in these summaries. Reviewers accuse leadership of dishonesty, manipulation, and a lack of interest in both residents and staff. Specific allegations include administrators lying to superiors and staff, and manipulating situations rather than addressing problems. The facility has reportedly been cited and fined, and admissions were halted because of inadequacy — a serious signal of regulatory intervention. Several reviewers explicitly call for leadership change. These administrative failures appear to be a central driver of the other problems reported (clinical, staffing, morale), and they contribute heavily to families' emotional distress.

    Facilities, activities, and quality-of-life items: On the positive side, reviewers frequently mention well-appointed rooms, enjoyable musical activities, trips, and social programming described as fun and engaging (including references to group activities like a 'boys and girls club' atmosphere). These elements suggest that when programming and individual staff engagement are functioning, residents can have meaningful recreational and social experiences. However, such positives are reported alongside complaints about basic care and hygiene, indicating unevenness between social programming and core care responsibilities.

    Financial and emotional impact: Several reviewers express that costs are high, which exacerbates the emotional burden when care quality or administration is questioned. Families report emotional distress driven by concerns over neglect, medical errors, or perceived cover-ups by administration. The combination of perceived inadequate care and substantial expense intensifies negative reactions and diminishes trust.

    Patterns and takeaways: The reviews form a consistent pattern where frontline caregivers — in particular individuals and certain activities — receive praise for providing compassionate, prompt care and meaningful engagement, but systemic issues largely tied to leadership, staffing policies, and medical oversight undermine overall quality. The presence of regulatory citations, fines, and halted admissions elevates the reports from anecdotal dissatisfaction to documented institutional problems. Prospective residents and families should weigh the evident strengths in programming and individual staff against the serious, recurring complaints about administration, clinical safety, and staff working conditions. The data from these summaries point to an urgent need for improved leadership, stronger clinical oversight, staff training/support, and transparency to reconcile the facility's positive person-level experiences with its documented systemic failures.

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    About Delaware Veterans Home

    Delaware Veterans Home is a long-term care facility designed to provide quality care to veterans in need of skilled nursing services. The home offers a variety of services and amenities to meet the diverse needs of its residents. With a team of dedicated healthcare professionals, Delaware Veterans Home strives to create a warm and welcoming environment where veterans can feel comfortable and supported.

    The home offers a range of healthcare services, including skilled nursing care, rehabilitation services, and assistance with activities of daily living. Residents receive personalized care plans tailored to their individual needs and preferences. Delaware Veterans Home also provides recreational activities and social events to promote engagement and overall well-being among residents.

    In addition to providing quality healthcare services, Delaware Veterans Home offers comfortable accommodations for residents to call home. The facility features private and semi-private rooms, as well as communal spaces for residents to socialize and relax. The home is designed to be a safe and secure environment for veterans to live comfortably and independently.

    Delaware Veterans Home is committed to honoring and serving those who have served our country. The home provides a supportive and respectful environment for veterans to receive the care they deserve. With a focus on compassion and dignity, Delaware Veterans Home strives to enhance the quality of life for all residents through personalized care and meaningful interactions.

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