Pricing ranges from
    $7,925 – 10,302/month

    Brandywine Fenwick Island by Monarch

    21111 Arrington Dr, Selbyville, DE, 19975
    4.7 · 75 reviews
    • Assisted living
    • Memory care
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    5.0

    Exceptional luxurious caring memory care

    I chose Brandywine Fenwick Island for my mom and couldn't be more confident. The facility is stunning - luxury/hotel/cruise-ship feel, immaculate and beautifully furnished. Staff are exceptional: compassionate, knowledgeable nurses and caregivers, long-tenured team, responsive leadership (Jeannie was especially helpful) and prompt communication. Dining is upscale with cooked-to-order meals and waiter service, and activities are creative, frequent, and engaging (Reflections memory care is structured and supportive). Safety, strong clinical leadership, and well-coordinated care give me real peace of mind. It's pricey and transitions are hard, but overall I highly recommend Brandywine.

    Pricing

    $7,925+/moSemi-privateAssisted Living
    $9,510+/mo1 BedroomAssisted Living
    $10,302+/moStudioAssisted Living

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Coordination with health care providers
    • Hospice waiver
    • Medication management
    • Mental wellness program

    Healthcare staffing

    • 12-16 hour nursing
    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Restaurant-style dining
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Air-conditioning
    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Private bathrooms
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Memory care community services

    • Dementia waiver
    • Mild cognitive impairment
    • Specialized memory care programming

    Transportation

    • Community operated transportation
    • Transportation arrangement
    • Transportation arrangement (medical)
    • Transportation arrangement (non-medical)
    • Transportation to doctors appointments

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Computer center
    • Dining room
    • Fitness room
    • Gaming room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space
    • Small library
    • Wellness center

    Community services

    • Concierge services
    • Fitness programs
    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Planned day trips
    • Resident-run activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    4.73 · 75 reviews

    Overall rating

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    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      4.9
    • Staff

      4.8
    • Meals

      4.6
    • Amenities

      4.8
    • Value

      3.0

    Pros

    • Outstanding nursing and clinical support
    • Compassionate, attentive and personalized caregiving staff
    • Clean, exceptionally well maintained facility
    • Strong, coordinated leadership and care management
    • High-quality memory care program (Reflections) with appropriate activities
    • Wide variety of daily activities and engaging programming
    • Family-focused programs and regular Family Day Connections
    • On-site therapies (physical, occupational, aqua) and medical services
    • Upscale, hotel-like dining with cooked-to-order meals and waiter service
    • Multiple levels of care on one campus (independent, assisted, memory)
    • Responsive communication, regular updates and photo reporting
    • Safety-focused practices and reassurance about resident well-being
    • Large, comfortable common spaces (libraries, salons, activity rooms)
    • Maintenance, housekeeping and concierge-style services
    • Programs that encourage independence and dignity
    • Positive resident outcomes noted (improved mobility, slowed cognitive decline)
    • Long-tenured, familiar staff who know residents by name
    • Social life features (live music, happy hour, outings, classes)
    • Convenient location near Fenwick Island and good transportation options
    • Onsite amenities (beauty shop, woodshop, salons, multiple dining venues)
    • Personalized move-in and community relations support
    • Engaging memory-care structure with daily exercise and mental stimulation
    • Warm, family-like atmosphere and strong sense of community

    Cons

    • Higher cost; more expensive than some families desire
    • Occasional reports of rude or unprofessional staff/management
    • Some inconsistency in staff responsiveness across reviewers
    • Transition/adjustment is emotionally difficult for families
    • Many apartments have small kitchenettes (small fridge/microwave)
    • Not all experiences are perfect; intermittent quality gaps mentioned
    • Isolated reports of poor front-end information or intake experience
    • COVID-related quarantine challenges reported by some families
    • Decor/ornate public spaces may not match every family's style preference
    • A few reviewers described inattentive staff or slow responses

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment across the reviews is strongly positive: reviewers repeatedly emphasize top-tier clinical care, compassionate direct caregivers, and an upscale, hotel-like environment. Nursing and clinical leadership receive consistent praise for competence and coordination; families repeatedly report feeling that their loved ones are "in good hands." Many reviewers highlighted the memory care Reflections program as appropriately structured and stimulating, noting daily exercise, mental engagement, and programs that in some cases slowed cognitive decline or improved residents' functioning.

    Staff quality and culture are dominant positive themes. Caregivers, nurses, activities staff, dining staff, maintenance, and administration are frequently described as kind, attentive, and personalized — staff knowing residents by name, responding to individual preferences, and going above and beyond. Several reviewers named specific employees and community relations staff (for example, Jeannie, Eileen Bennett, Christine Warrington, Renee, Ann Marie, Annie) as exemplars of the community’s responsiveness and warmth. Long tenure of staff is cited, contributing to continuity of care and a family-like atmosphere.

    The facility and amenities are another major strength. Multiple reviews describe the property as gorgeous, immaculate, and well maintained with upscale interiors (some even liken it to a cruise ship or luxury hotel). There are plentiful communal spaces—libraries, salons, activity rooms, woodshop, patios and well-kept grounds—and dining venues in every hall. Reviewers point out practical services such as on-site beauty shops, maintenance assistance, housekeeping, and concierge-style support. The location near Fenwick Island and availability of transportation and outings are additional positives.

    Dining and therapies receive high marks. Meals are frequently described as excellent, made-from-scratch by a chef, and served with waiter service; multiple reviewers appreciated cooked-to-order options and attention to dietary preferences. On-site clinical supports such as 24/7 nursing, physical/occupational/aqua therapy, and teaching for specific medical needs were noted as important assets that contributed to health improvements for residents.

    Activities and family engagement are heavily emphasized. Reviewers describe a robust activities calendar with live music, happy hours, exercise classes (Fun, Fit and Fabulous), crafts, woodworking, scheduled outings, and social events. Family-oriented opportunities (monthly Family Day Connections with live music and lunch) and regular communications (phone updates and photos) were highlighted as helping families feel included and reassured. Memory-care programming is portrayed as both stimulating and safe, with staff attention to individualized needs.

    Despite the overwhelmingly positive themes, reviewers also mention several consistent caveats. Cost is a recurring concern—many describe the community as pricey or more expensive than they had wanted. A small but notable subset of reviews recount negative interpersonal experiences: rude or unprofessional behavior from staff or management, poor front-end information when touring or checking in, or occasional inattentiveness and slow responsiveness. These complaints appear to be less common than the praises but are significant because they contrast sharply with the otherwise family-focused tone. Other practical critiques include small in-unit kitchenettes in many apartments (largest apartments offer full kitchens) and the emotional difficulty families experience during transitions into care.

    There are also a few operational issues noted: COVID-related quarantine experiences were challenging for some, and some reviewers described the public-area décor as ornate or formal—an aesthetic that may not suit every family's taste. Overall, however, these negative points are framed as isolated or occasional rather than systemic.

    In sum, Brandywine Fenwick Island by Monarch is portrayed across reviews as a high-end, clinically strong senior living community that combines excellent nursing and memory-care services with abundant amenities, engaging programming, and a warm, family-like staff culture. The dominant narrative is one of safety, dignity, meaningful activity, and high standards for cleanliness and service. Prospective families should weigh the higher cost against the level of clinical resources, staff continuity, and lifestyle amenities on offer, and they should be aware that, while rare, there are occasional reports of problematic interactions or inconsistent responsiveness that merit asking specific questions during tours and admissions conversations.

    Location

    Map showing location of Brandywine Fenwick Island by Monarch

    About Brandywine Fenwick Island by Monarch

    Brandywine Fenwick Island by Monarch sits close to the sandy shores of Fenwick Island, Bethany Beach, and Ocean City, offering a peaceful, seaside setting for seniors who want both calm and activity. The community provides assisted living, memory care, nursing home options, in-home care, and respite care so seniors can find the level of support they need, whether that means help with daily tasks, medication, or more complex medical care including rehabilitation and wound support. There's also a special area for those with Alzheimer's or dementia, where staff aim to keep seniors safe with secure housing, routines that reduce confusion and prevent wandering, and therapies designed around memory care needs.

    Residents have access to features like private rooms, maintenance-free living, on-site laundry, housekeeping, and 24-hour care by dedicated nurses and caregivers, including specialized support like podiatry, physical and occupational therapy, and hospice. The team prepares fresh, chef-made meals daily, offering restaurant-style dining with menus that include texture-modified meals for those who need them, and they keep careful temperature logs and follow ServSafe and food safety guidelines. Amenities include indoor and outdoor recreation areas, a fitness center, movie theater, garden, pool, walking paths, courtyard, and common areas for socializing, as well as extras like a barber and beauty shop, pet-friendly environment, cable TV, WiFi, thermostat controls, and secure entry. Seniors can join fitness classes, crafts, group outings, or enjoy live entertainment, devotional services, and library time.

    The facility's staff has training and support themselves, including access to flexible spending accounts, retirement plans, insurance, and paid time off, and they operate with safety in mind, using the right body mechanics and keeping up with food and health care rules. The community treats each resident like an individual and encourages family members to stay involved, and staff work to help seniors stay independent for as long as possible. The environment's welcoming, with a focus on respect, kindness, and finding purpose each day, and the location means seniors can still enjoy the local shops, concerts, and the beach when they like. Monarch Communities calls this a combination of seaside peace and comfortable, supportive senior living, with care that adjusts as each resident's needs change.

    About Brandywine Living

    Brandywine Fenwick Island by Monarch is managed by Brandywine Living.

    Brandywine Living (founded 1996) is a premier senior living provider headquartered in Mount Laurel, NJ, operating approximately 29 luxury communities across NY, NJ, PA, CT, DE, MD, and VA. They offer assisted living, memory care, independent living, and respite care services. Guided by core values of Trust, Love, and Sincerity.

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