Overall sentiment: The reviews for Highgate Senior Living are mixed but tilt positive overall. A substantial portion of reviewers consistently praise the frontline caregiving teams, describing staff as warm, compassionate, and personally attentive. Many families and residents highlight staff who remember residents’ names, provide personal attention, and create a family-like atmosphere. The community is frequently described as bright, clean, pet-friendly, and rich in social opportunities. Life-enrichment programming, transportation for outings, and a breadth of activities (bingo, music, concerts, themed events, field trips) are recurring strengths, and multiple staff members are singled out repeatedly for exemplary service. Several reviews also emphasize effective hospice support and on-site clinical resources, contributing to feelings of safety and well-being for residents.
Care quality and staff: Care quality is a central theme and is reported quite variably. Many reviewers report high-quality, compassionate caregiving (timely medications, attentive nurses/aides, dignity in end-of-life care). Numerous specific staff members receive repeated praise for going above and beyond. However, a meaningful subset of reviews describes inconsistent care: missed tasks (e.g., CPAP not turned on, missing washcloths), inattentive shifts, slow responses to calls for help, and, in a few cases, serious concerns such as increased falls or alleged neglect. Staffing levels and turnover are frequently cited as root causes for those lapses; understaffing and high turnover correlate with reports of long waits and stress among residents and families. Prospective families should note this variability: many residents thrive under the current staff, yet others have experienced gaps that required escalation or external caregivers.
Management and communication: Communication and management receive polarized feedback. Several reviewers praise proactive directors and responsive administration (some call out a new director, Wendy, and others for improving communication and structure). These reviews note clear leadership, timely problem resolution, and improved activity schedules. Conversely, other reviews accuse top management of being profit-driven, unprofessional, or poor communicators; examples include ignored complaints, mishandled incidents (including a theft allegation), and unmet proposals such as courtyard-door safety fixes. Miscommunication about contract terms, move-in fees, and room pricing also appears in multiple summaries. In short, on-the-ground staff often get high marks, while corporate or managerial consistency appears uneven across reviewers and time periods.
Dining and housekeeping: Dining experiences are another mixed area. Many residents enjoy the dining room experience, praising servers, daily specials, and the social benefits of shared meals. Several reviews specifically commend dining staff for friendliness and professionalism. However, a significant number of reviewers find the food bland, casserole- or pasta-heavy, or lacking in variety and seasoning. Housekeeping generally receives favorable comments about cleanliness and weekly room cleaning, but multiple reviews point to inconsistent execution — missed dusting, occasional unclean rooms, and lapses in laundry service (notably on Mondays in some reports). Some residents praised efficient laundry pickup and same-day return, while others had to do their own laundry due to lapses.
Facilities, safety, and amenities: The facility’s physical environment is often described positively: bright, cheery common areas, a well-kept courtyard and gardens, and comfortable, personalized rooms. Pet friendliness, proximity to medical services, and accessible transportation services are often cited as benefits. Still, safety concerns are raised in certain reports: pending maintenance requests (e.g., courtyard door accessibility), incidents tied to staffing shortages (falls), and equipment mishandling (CPAP) were mentioned. Many reviewers explicitly state they feel their loved ones are safe, while a minority express the opposite.
Activities and social life: Life-enrichment programming is a standout positive for many families. Diverse activities, special events (car shows, Vegas nights, music and memory events), trips to museums, and intergenerational programming with childcare were noted as highly engaging and meaningful for residents. These programs contribute strongly to socialization, improved appetite, and overall mood. A smaller number of reviewers felt activity offerings were inconsistent or insufficiently tailored for certain residents, suggesting room for improvement or better personalization.
Notable patterns and red flags: There is a recurring pattern of polarized experiences — many reviewers describe Highgate as a warm, home-like community with exceptional staff, whereas others report troubling lapses in care and management. Serious red-flag items that appear in multiple reviews include inconsistent staffing/turnover, slow call responses, miscommunication over pricing/room placement, and a few reports of neglect or poor screening processes. While many families explicitly state the community is "worth every penny," others say it is expensive for the inconsistent value received. Specific, actionable complaints (missed dusting, Monday laundry issues, CPAP mishandling, unanswered call buttons, courtyard door safety) are mentioned often enough that prospective residents should explicitly verify these points during a tour.
Recommendation for prospective families: The aggregate impression is that Highgate can offer an excellent, warm, socially rich living environment with many committed caregivers and a robust activities program, but that experiences depend heavily on staffing stability and management responsiveness at a given time. When evaluating Highgate, it would be prudent to: (1) tour multiple times at different hours and ask about staffing ratios and turnover; (2) meet direct-care staff and ask about daily routines (medication passes, call-button response time, specialized equipment procedures like CPAP); (3) request written clarification on pricing, move-in fees, and room assignment policies; (4) observe dining service and request sample menus or recent menu cycles; (5) ask for copies of incident logs or quality reports if available; and (6) inquire about pending maintenance items and their timelines. These targeted questions will help determine whether the facility’s strengths align with an individual resident’s needs and whether any reported concerns have been addressed.







