The Elms Center

    71 Elm St, Milford, NH, 03055
    4.3 · 45 reviews
    • Assisted living
    • Memory care
    • Skilled nursing
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    3.0

    Caring staff but safety concerns

    I found the place warm, homelike, and very clean - friendly, compassionate and knowledgeable staff, engaging activities, and a pleasant outdoor patio made visits enjoyable and my loved one feel cared for. During post-hospital and hospice moments the team was comforting and family-centered, and advocates on staff were incredibly helpful. However, chronic understaffing, slow or unanswered call bells, inconsistent nursing (medication delays, care gaps that led to skin issues and falls), and poor management/phone communication are serious concerns. I'm grateful for the caring people here but cautious - excellent staff, but safety and communication need real improvement.

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Coordination with health care providers
    • Medication management
    • Mental wellness program

    Healthcare staffing

    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Transportation

    • Transportation arrangement (medical)
    • Transportation to doctors appointments

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Dining room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space

    Community services

    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    4.29 · 45 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      4.1
    • Staff

      4.2
    • Meals

      2.3
    • Amenities

      3.8
    • Value

      2.0

    Pros

    • Compassionate, caring staff who treat residents like family
    • Attentive and patient nursing and floor staff
    • Strong nurse/unit manager and capable clinical caregivers
    • Advocacy by specific staff members (Barbara, Mackenzie)
    • Active engagement and meaningful activities (puzzles, reading, games, patriotic events)
    • Inviting outdoor patio and outdoor activity space
    • Welcoming, home-like and warm environment
    • Clean and well-maintained building reported by many reviewers
    • Good end-of-life and hospice care experiences
    • Effective pandemic-era communication for some (weekly update calls)
    • Use of an online portal for information access (when available)
    • Friendly and helpful administrative and office staff
    • Rehabilitation focus reported by some families
    • Residents appear socially engaged and happy in many accounts
    • Safe, small-building environment with individualized attention
    • Staff appreciation and a passionate administrator noted
    • Good volunteer opportunities and community involvement
    • Comforting, family-centered care praised by multiple families
    • Beds and capacity reportedly available at times
    • Positive food/kitchen impressions reported by some (pleasant smells)

    Cons

    • Chronic short-staffing and daytime shortages
    • Slow or unanswered nurse/call bell responses
    • Phone system frequently not working; calls unanswered
    • Medication administration delays and occasional incorrect meds
    • Perceived inexperienced or underqualified nursing staff
    • Care gaps leading to skin breakdown, falls, and medical emergencies
    • Inconsistent or insufficient physical therapy in some cases
    • Dirty or poorly maintained bathrooms and occasional cleanliness issues
    • Food reported as terrible, cold, or tough by some families
    • Management and communication problems; poor transparency
    • Unprofessional handling of concerns and family communications
    • Activities described as inconsistent or almost non-existent by some
    • Noise issues (loud TVs, noisy roommates) not always addressed
    • Some reviewers find the facility outdated or not well cared for
    • Safety concerns raised in severe complaints
    • Contradictory reports about staffing adequacy and cleanliness
    • One review reports severe failings and recommends closure
    • Value-for-money concerns from some families
    • Buzzer/door or staff response problems (unanswered buzzers)
    • Occasional lack of timely updates or inclusion for families

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment: The reviews for The Elms Center are mixed but cluster strongly around two clear themes: highly praised frontline staff and recurring operational problems. Many families emphasize that the people who work at The Elms — nurses, aides, activities staff, and specific advocates named in reviews (Barbara and Mackenzie) — are compassionate, patient, and treat residents like family. Those positive accounts routinely mention comfort, dignity, successful hospice and post-hospital care, active engagement through activities, and a warm, home-like atmosphere. At the same time, a sizeable minority of reviewers report serious systemic issues that have impacted safety, clinical care, and family trust.

    Care quality and clinical issues: Clinical experiences vary widely. Numerous reviewers describe excellent, attentive care: helpful nurses, strong unit management, successful rehabilitation efforts for some residents, and high-quality end-of-life/hospice support. However, other reviews raise troubling clinical concerns: chronic short-staffing, slow or unanswered call bells, medication delays or incorrect medications, and reports of care gaps that allegedly contributed to skin breakdown, falls, and medical emergencies. There are also accounts of inexperience among some nursing staff and at least one report of inadequate physical therapy. These conflicting reports suggest that while individual caregivers and teams can deliver excellent hands-on care, variability in staffing levels and staff expertise can create risk for some residents.

    Staff, culture, and advocacy: The strongest and most consistent positive theme is the staff culture. Reviewers repeatedly describe staff as kind, comforting, respectful, and willing to include families in care decisions. Multiple families singled out staff members for advocacy and daily engagement, and several reviewers said their loved ones were treated with affection and dignity. Activities staff earn praise for bringing joy through puzzles, reading groups, outdoor games, and themed events; the outdoor patio is noted as a valuable, inviting space. These human elements are central to the facility's appeal and are cited as the reason many families recommend The Elms despite other issues.

    Facilities, cleanliness, and environment: Many reviewers describe a clean, well-maintained, home-like facility with no cigarette odor and pleasant kitchen smells. Others, however, report specific cleanliness problems such as dirty bathrooms and instances of poor maintenance. Some families view the building as older or outdated. The outdoor spaces and small-building scale are frequently praised for contributing to a comfortable atmosphere, but there is clearly inconsistency in how well areas are maintained or cleaned from day to day according to different reviewers.

    Dining and activities: Activities are highlighted as an important quality-of-life factor, with several positive mentions of a busy activities calendar, outdoor events, and staff-led programs that residents enjoy. Conversely, activity scheduling is described as inconsistent by some families, and at least one review stated activities were almost non-existent. Dining feedback is also mixed: some reviewers appreciated kitchen smells and meals, while others reported cold, terrible food and tough meat. These conflicting reports suggest variability in food service quality and activity delivery that may depend on staffing and management on a given day or shift.

    Management, communication, and systems: Administrative performance and communication are major points of divergence. Some families praised clear, inclusive communication, weekly update calls during COVID, and use of an online portal. Others reported poor transparency, unprofessional handling of concerns, unanswered phone calls, and that phones were constantly ringing without being answered. Several reviewers described management as excellent and passionate, while others found management unresponsive or ineffectual. The unreliable phone system and inconsistent updates are recurring operational problems that directly affect family trust and the facility's perceived reliability.

    Patterns and notable concerns: The most frequently mentioned negatives are staffing shortages, unanswered call bells/phones, medication and clinical care inconsistencies, and management communication problems. These issues are interrelated: understaffing drives delayed responses, inconsistent activity programming, and potential safety events. At the same time, the repeated praise for individual staff members and positive care experiences indicates that when staffing and management practices align, The Elms can offer very strong, person-centered care.

    Bottom line and considerations for families: The Elms Center appears to have a deeply compassionate caregiving culture and several standout staff and programs that improve residents' lives. However, prospective families should be aware of recurring operational and safety concerns reported by others—particularly around staffing levels, response times, medication management, cleanliness in some areas, phone/communication reliability, and variable management responsiveness. Before making decisions, families would be wise to visit multiple times (including evenings and weekends), ask about current staffing ratios and turnover, review recent incident reports and staffing schedules if possible, confirm medication and therapy protocols, test the phone/communications system, and speak with family members of current residents about both staff strengths and any issues they have observed. Addressing the operational gaps noted in reviews (staffing stability, phone systems, consistent cleaning and food service, and clear family communication) would likely resolve most of the facility's negative feedback while preserving the clearly strong, compassionate care that many families value.

    Location

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    About The Elms Center

    The Elms Center sits in Milford, New Hampshire at 71 Elm St, and stands as a skilled nursing facility with 52 certified beds, focusing on long-term care, short stays, and rehabilitation for seniors. Residents get help with everyday needs like bathing, dressing, and managing their medicines, and there are services for those with memory care needs or more serious medical problems that require skilled nurses. The Elms Center offers daily housekeeping, laundry, and meal services that consider special diets, including diabetes and allergies, so meals are safe for everyone. There's a strong focus on health, with licensed nurses, therapists for physical, speech, or occupational therapy, and access to medical providers for seamless care each day and night, and there's always a 24-hour call and supervision system for emergencies and peace of mind. Rooms come furnished, including phone access, air conditioning, and private or shared options, some with wheelchair-friendly showers and tubs; residents can also use internet and cable if they'd like, and common areas include indoor lounge spaces, outdoor walking paths, and even a community garden for fresh air. Seniors can socialize with movie nights, arts and crafts, fitness programs, and both on- and off-site activities, while a barber and salon keep everyone looking their best and courtesy transportation helps with trips into the neighborhood, appointments, or group outings. The staff assists with medication management, behavior support, and incontinence care, and there's a special memory support program for those showing signs of dementia, with added safety to prevent wandering or getting lost. The Elms Center accepts Medicare and Medicaid, making it possible for more families to consider this location for care; the facility is not part of a continuing care retirement community and is owned by a for-profit limited liability company. Besides providing round-the-clock skilled nursing, there's help in place for complicated health needs, including wound care and palliative or hospice care. Rehabilitation and therapy services are a central feature, aiming to help everyone reach their strongest level of independence, and the center hosts a Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation Clinic on-site. For those who only need help for a short time, there's a respite care program, and move-in coordination tries to make the transition smoother. The Elms Center isn't accepting new patients at this time, but when it does, a local advisor helps families learn about options, pricing, and verified ratings, and visitors often comment on the peaceful setting and warm, welcoming staff who work to make the residents comfortable every day.

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