Pricing ranges from
    $4,427 – 5,755/month

    Gurwin Jewish - Fay J. Lindner Residences

    50 Hauppauge Rd, Commack, NY, 11725
    3.9 · 39 reviews
    • Independent living
    • Assisted living
    • Memory care
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    4.0

    Compassionate staff but monitor closely

    I placed my parent at Gurwin and overall we found caring, kind and hardworking staff (special nod to Beth and Stephanie), excellent food, a clean, secure facility with lots of activities and a thriving memory-care unit that really improved quality of life and gave us peace of mind. The community is welcoming and family-like with good communication and many amenities, but it's a large, busy place and I've seen/read serious concerns - COVID outbreaks, medication/timing issues, some management rudeness and occasional lapses in dementia/safety care. I'd recommend it for attentive, compassionate staff and programs, but visit in person and monitor care closely.

    Pricing

    $4,427+/moSemi-privateAssisted Living
    $5,312+/mo1 BedroomAssisted Living
    $5,755+/moStudioAssisted Living

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Medication management
    • Mental wellness program

    Healthcare staffing

    • 12-16 hour nursing
    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Restaurant-style dining
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Air-conditioning
    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Private bathrooms
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Transportation

    • Community operated transportation
    • Transportation arrangement
    • Transportation arrangement (non-medical)

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Computer center
    • Dining room
    • Fitness room
    • Gaming room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space
    • Small library
    • Wellness center

    Community services

    • Concierge services
    • Fitness programs
    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Planned day trips
    • Resident-run activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    3.95 · 39 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      3.7
    • Staff

      3.9
    • Meals

      3.4
    • Amenities

      3.5
    • Value

      2.2

    Pros

    • Responsive, caring and compassionate direct care staff
    • Aides who go beyond the call of duty
    • Warm, friendly greetings and personable staff who remember names
    • Engaging recreation therapists and a variety of activities (for many residents)
    • Varied dining options and generally praised meals
    • Attractive apartments and well-maintained grounds
    • Good location with transportation and on-site services
    • On-site synagogue, kosher dining and religious programming
    • Beauty parlor, library and other convenient amenities
    • Supportive wellness and case management for some families
    • Seamless move-in process and transparent marketing/staff (named staff praised)
    • Spotless/exceptionally clean facility in many reports
    • Dialysis available on site and adjacent nursing home for higher-level care
    • Private rooms with kitchenettes and spacious, bright apartments
    • Active recreation center and social programming that keeps residents engaged
    • Family-like atmosphere reported by multiple residents/families
    • Quick response to concerns and good family communication in many cases
    • Long-term residents report safety, stability and focus on residents over profit
    • Helpful transportation and guest meal availability
    • High recommendations from several medical and family referrals

    Cons

    • Mixed and sometimes rude or unapproachable management/administration
    • Inconsistent COVID response: slow adaptation and outbreaks reported
    • Visitation restrictions and lockdown experiences that felt draconian to some
    • Significant variability in activity quality — reported as boring by some
    • Reduced meal quality and room-service meals during COVID for some residents
    • Potential staffing cuts and reports of abrupt/large rent increases
    • Medication errors, inconsistent timing and unsafe public distribution practices
    • PM medications reported delivered late (after 10pm) in some cases
    • Facility size: feels too large, hard to navigate, and at times institutional
    • Housekeeping inconsistencies: reports range from spotless to filthy and malodorous
    • Masking/vaccination enforcement inconsistent; unvaccinated staff reported
    • Overcrowding and not enough seating in busy common areas/lobby
    • Insufficient specialized dementia/Alzheimer's care and lack of one-on-one attention
    • Serious allegations: neglect, deaths attributed to neglect, and active lawsuits
    • Occasional apathy or jaded behavior from some staff members
    • Privacy concerns (meds administered or handled publicly)
    • Front desk/cafeteria or other staff rudeness reported by visitors
    • Security/lighting and parking concerns at times
    • High cost and many extra charges; some feel value does not match price
    • Inconsistent management style and complaint handling

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment for Gurwin Jewish - Fay J. Lindner Residences is highly polarized: a large number of reviews describe genuinely warm, attentive caregiving and a pleasant resident experience, while a substantial minority describes serious lapses in clinical care, management responsiveness, and safety. Many residents and families praise the hands-on aides, recreation staff, and wellness teams, highlighting staff who remember names, go the extra mile, and create a family-like environment. Positive reports frequently mention beautiful apartments, bright units with kitchenettes, well-maintained grounds, convenient on-site services (kosher dining, synagogue, beauty parlor, library), transportation, and available clinical services such as dialysis and an adjacent nursing home for step-up care.

    Care quality is a key area of divergence. Numerous accounts describe compassionate, competent caregiving, quick responses to family concerns, transparent move-in processes, and improved quality of life following admission. Several reviewers singled out specific staff and leaders (for example, marketing or directors by name) for making transitions seamless and keeping families informed. Conversely, there are repeated, serious clinical concerns: medication errors, inconsistent medication timing (including PM meds arriving very late), public distribution of medications in dining areas, and at least some reviews alleging neglect that they attribute to harm or death. These clinical complaints are among the most serious themes and are sometimes linked to active lawsuits or family efforts to remove loved ones.

    Staff and management impressions are mixed and appear to depend strongly on unit, shift, or individual staff members. Many reviewers praise front-line staff—nurses, aides, recreation therapists and dining staff—as warm, responsive, and caring. At the same time a notable number of families report rude or unapproachable management, indifferent or mean-spirited wellness personnel, and difficulty getting complaints handled. Several reviews convey a perception that administration has become less resident-focused over time, with suggestions of profit-driven decisions (reports of rent hikes and potential staffing cuts) that worry families.

    Activities and social life likewise show a split picture. Multiple reviewers describe an active recreation program, engaging classes, synagogue and council activities, and a lively recreation center that keeps residents engaged. Others say activities are boring, reduced (especially during COVID), or not tailored to memory-impaired residents. Memory/dementia care receives mixed marks: some report a thriving memory care unit and peace of mind, while others say the facility is not equipped to handle Alzheimer's or dementia properly, citing lack of one-on-one care and transfers to the nursing unit after rapid decline.

    Facility condition and cleanliness are inconsistent across reviews. Many calls the facility spotless with beautiful grounds and upscale-feeling apartments; these reviewers report bright, spacious units and top-notch housekeeping. Contradictory reports describe poor housekeeping, garbage and used medical items left in rooms or hallways, bad smells, and a drab institutional vibe. The size of the campus is another double-edged sword: it provides many on-site services and an adjacent nursing home, but some families find the campus too big, busy, hotel-like, or difficult for mobility-impaired residents to navigate. Overcrowded common areas and insufficient seating for those with mobility issues were specifically noted by several reviewers.

    Safety and COVID-19 handling are also described in opposing terms. Some families praised proactive COVID safety, restricted visits that protected residents, and a sense of safety overall. Others report slow policy changes, staff outbreaks, unvaccinated staff, lax masking enforcement, and feelings that safety was not always prioritized. Several reviews recount lockdowns and restricted visits that were traumatic to families—especially when combined with reduced activities and in-room dining that reportedly diminished meal quality and social contact.

    Dining and housekeeping feedback is similarly mixed. Post-COVID-era complaints include meals delivered to rooms with degraded quality or unappetizing pureed textures, while many other reviews praise diverse meal options, guest meal availability, and enjoyable dining. Some families praise the dining staff and the kosher offerings; others describe declines in quality and complaints about extra charges for services.

    Cost and value are recurring concerns. Multiple reviewers acknowledge that the facility is pricey and in line with local market rates, with some feeling the cost is justified by staff and amenities. However, a significant subset feels there are too many extra charges, unexpected bills for medications or services, and rent increases that aren’t aligned with consistent care quality.

    Patterns and takeaways: reviewers tend to report either a strongly positive, family-like experience with excellent direct care and amenities, or significant frustration with management, clinical lapses, and safety concerns. The frequency of both high praise and serious allegations suggests variability by unit, staff team, or time period. If you are evaluating Gurwin, look for up-to-date information on medication management procedures, dementia-care staffing and programming, COVID/vaccination policies, housekeeping protocols, and how the administration responds to and resolves clinical or safety complaints. Touring multiple times, meeting nursing and wellness leadership, speaking with current families in the specific unit of interest, and requesting records or policies on medication distribution and incident reporting would help prospective residents and families assess whether the positive or negative pattern is more representative of the current experience.

    Location

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    About Gurwin Jewish - Fay J. Lindner Residences

    Gurwin Jewish - Fay J. Lindner Residences sits in Commack, NY, on a big 47-acre campus. The community has apartments set up for independent living but offers support as people need it. Residents get weekly housekeeping, linen service, and dining with kosher and vegetarian meals, and chefs can make special diets like vegan, low-salt, or low-sugar. Safety is a big focus, with 24-hour security, emergency call systems, and wearable alert bracelets for anyone at risk of wandering, especially for those in the secure memory care areas designed for people with Alzheimer's or dementia. There's a beauty salon and barber shop onsite, plus a fitness room, spa suites, movie theatre, walking paths, gardens, and parks to enjoy outdoors. Every apartment and wing has washers and dryers, while inside, there are sun-filled sitting rooms, a living room with a fireplace, and group spaces for activities. The Kava Café in the lobby gives a cozy spot for coffee or snacks. Staff members, including nurses and a doctor-on-call, help around the clock with daily tasks, wellness needs, and medication if required, and they focus on getting to know each resident.

    Lindner Residences gives access to many services on one campus, since it's part of the larger Gurwin Healthcare System's Life Plan Community, so people can stay as health needs change, from light help to heavy care, even including memory support, rehabilitation, dialysis, hospice care, and a ventilator-dependent unit. The whole setup allows folks to remain there if their needs become greater over time. There are adult day health programs, home health services, companion care, and a dedicated team for everything from diabetes care to behavioral health and managing incontinence. Residents can keep pets like dogs or cats. There's transportation for appointments and trips, with luxury town cars and vans provided. They run social and educational activities every day, like movie nights, art classes, gardening, group exercise like Tai Chi and Yoga, and even intergenerational programs. Religious services happen onsite at the synagogue, and there's support for attending faith events off campus too.

    Lindner Residences is handicap accessible and has Wi-Fi, offering both comfort and connection. Memory Care is housed in its own building, outfitted to keep residents safe and prevent wandering, and has a private dining room and secure garden paths. Residents have free membership to the Suffolk Y-JCC next door, where there's an Olympic pool, fitness track, and theatre. Meals are made with thought for taste and health, and the dining rooms look out on well-kept gardens. Staff are known to be kind, helpful, and quick to respond, and everyone in the community works together to build friendships and look out for each other. The place has earned awards based on resident feedback for its meals and activities. Gurwin Jewish - Fay J. Lindner Residences has been part of Long Island since 1988, offering many levels of care, comfortable living, and a steady team for those wanting a secure, active community as they age.

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