Pricing ranges from
    $4,243 – 5,091/month

    Lydia H. Roper Home

    127 East 40th Street, Norfolk, VA, 23504
    4.3 · 3 reviews
    • Assisted living
    • Skilled nursing
    AnonymousCurrent/former resident
    5.0

    Charming mansion with caring staff

    I live in a beautiful old-timey mansion converted to senior housing and I love the home-like feel. The United Methodist staff, administration and cook (32 years) are all kind and helpful, care is good, and pricing is reasonable. The dining room is lovely, there are two big TV living rooms, game and rec rooms, snacks anytime, two weekly church services, bingo, outings and a full activities calendar - the Shrek musical was wonderful; I would return. My room is small but has a private bath and a nice closet. Note: there are nine stairs to the front door and three stories if the elevator is out, so accessibility can be a concern.

    Pricing

    $4,243+/moSemi-privateAssisted Living
    $5,091+/mo1 BedroomAssisted Living

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Medication management
    • Mental wellness program

    Healthcare staffing

    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Restaurant-style dining
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Dining room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space
    • Small library

    Community services

    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Resident-run activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    4.33 · 3 reviews

    Overall rating

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    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      5.0
    • Staff

      5.0
    • Meals

      4.0
    • Amenities

      4.0
    • Value

      4.0

    Pros

    • Historic, beautiful 'old-timey' mansion atmosphere
    • Home-like, quaint feeling
    • Friendly, helpful staff
    • Long-tenured cook (32 years)
    • Supportive and helpful administration
    • Good quality of care
    • Reasonable/affordable pricing
    • Beautiful dining room
    • Multiple common areas (two large living rooms, game room, recreation room)
    • Private bathroom in rooms
    • Nice-sized closet/storage
    • Snacks available anytime
    • Regular religious services (two church services weekly)
    • Active events calendar with activities (bingo, outings, musicals)
    • Run by United Methodist Church

    Cons

    • Small individual living space
    • Entrance requires climbing nine stairs
    • Accessibility concerns if elevator fails
    • Three-story layout can be problematic for mobility-impaired residents
    • Some rooms have unusual/angled layouts (e.g., under the roof)

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment across the reviews is positive, with recurring praise for the facility's charm, caring staff, food, and community atmosphere. Commenters consistently describe Lydia H. Roper Home as a beautiful, historic mansion converted into a senior living setting that feels quaint and home-like rather than institutional. Many highlights focus on the pleasant aesthetic (a beautiful dining room and multiple comfortable common rooms) and a sense of community and continuity—examples include a long-tenured cook (32 years), recurring church services, and well-attended events such as musicals and outings.

    Care quality and staffing emerge as strong points. Reviewers explicitly state that care is good and depict staff as nice, helpful, and attentive. Administration is described as precious and helpful, suggesting responsive management. The long service of key staff members (notably the cook) contributes to a stable, familiar environment that residents and families appreciate. The facility's association with the United Methodist Church and the provision of two weekly church services are repeatedly cited as meaningful to the culture and programming.

    Facilities and daily life receive detailed positive mention: the building includes two large living rooms with TVs, a game room, and a recreation room, plus an active calendar with regular activities (bingo, outings) and spontaneous comforts like snacks available anytime. Meals and dining are emphasized as attractive aspects (beautiful dining room), and entertainment events such as a Shrek musical are singled out as memorable experiences that encourage return visits. Pricing is described as reasonable, further supporting the value proposition reviewers perceive.

    At the same time, several concrete drawbacks and accessibility concerns appear across reviews. Individual resident rooms tend to be small, and while they commonly include private bathrooms and a decent closet, limited living space is noted. The building's historic character contributes to physical limitations: the main entrance has nine stairs, and the facility spans three stories, so the elevator is important; reviewers explicitly note a concern about what happens if the elevator breaks and that some rooms are angled or tucked under the roof. These layout and vertical circulation issues present potential mobility challenges and make the home a better fit for ambulatory or less mobility-impaired residents.

    In summary, Lydia H. Roper Home is portrayed as a warm, community-oriented senior residence with strong staff, good care, appealing dining, steady programming, and a distinctly historic, home-like ambiance. Its strengths are interpersonal (staff, administration, continuity) and cultural (church affiliation, activities, events), and it offers reasonable pricing. Prospective residents and families should weigh those benefits against the physical limitations of an older, multi-level building—small rooms, stairs at the entrance, and dependence on an elevator—when assessing suitability for residents with mobility or accessibility needs.

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    About Lydia H. Roper Home

    Lydia H. Roper Home, set in a building with history dating back to 1921 and renovated in 2022, offers senior living for women age 55 and older, mainly for those over 62 who can move around on their own, and the place has 26 bedrooms in the assisted living wing and also offers choices for independent living, assisted living, memory care, skilled nursing, and respite care, so folks who live there can get the kind of help that's right for them as their needs change, plus it's a pet-friendly place as long as the pets are small and follow the rules, and support's always close because there's a 24-hour call system and awake staff day and night, making sure someone's there when help's needed with things like bathing, dressing, blood sugar checks, and moving between bed and wheelchair-though staff only monitor diabetes and can't give insulin. The suites are furnished and have phone options, private bathrooms with designer tile, granite countertops, stainless steel appliances, dishwashers, full-sized washers and dryers, and big, bright bedrooms, plus there's open-concept living/dining, large windows, and some nice features like whirlpool spas, elevators, and wheelchair-friendly hallways and trails for folks who need them. Meals are a focus, with three daily and snacks, in several dining rooms including private ones, and choices for diabetes or allergies, plus there's a café or bistro and country club-style spots to eat, and utilities like water, electricity, internet, trash pickup, and parking come with the rent. Residents can use a beauty and barber shop, a small convenience store, a library, lounges, a clubhouse, an auditorium, a chapel, indoor and outdoor pools, a hot tub, a fitness center, walking paths, gardens, ponds, patios, and courts for bocce ball, pickleball, shuffleboard, and horseshoes. For getting out and about, there's scheduled and complimentary transportation, residence-owned cars and vans, and underground parking for those who drive themselves. Lydia H. Roper Home holds daily support services like housekeeping, laundry, dry cleaning, and postal service, and planned trips, outings, and on-site classes for arts, adult education, gardening, along with movie nights, community events, and resident-led activities; there's a learning center, performing arts area, and office space for work or volunteering, so seniors can stay active, learn, and socialize. The place also offers devotional programs, lounges for chatting, and indoor shared spaces for activities, and the staff-who get described as friendly, joyful, and kind-help keep things running smoothly and help people feel welcome and safe, all in a building close to downtown, the waterfront, and shopping and dining.

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