Pricing ranges from
    $4,908 – 6,380/month

    Marian Manor Retirement Community

    5345 Marian Ln, Virginia Beach, VA, 23462
    4.4 · 37 reviews
    • Assisted living
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    3.0

    Clean welcoming facility but understaffed

    My mother lives here and overall I'm impressed: the facility is clean, welcoming and vibrant with endless activities, a real family atmosphere, excellent rehab and in-house doctor, and convenient services (meals to room, cleaning, laundry, salon). Staff are often friendly and caring, dining is social, and my mom is happier and more active. That said, I've seen serious issues - understaffing and unresponsiveness (especially nights/weekends), lapses in cleanliness (urine smell, a bed-bug incident, dirty restroom), inconsistent food quality, and troubling handling of emergencies/restraints. I recommend it cautiously: visit several times and ask about night staffing, infection control and emergency protocols before deciding.

    Pricing

    $4,908+/moSemi-privateAssisted Living
    $5,889+/mo1 BedroomAssisted Living
    $6,380+/moStudioAssisted Living

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Coordination with health care providers
    • Medication management
    • Mental wellness program

    Healthcare staffing

    • 12-16 hour nursing
    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Restaurant-style dining
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Air-conditioning
    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Private bathrooms
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Transportation

    • Community operated transportation
    • Transportation arrangement
    • Transportation arrangement (medical)
    • Transportation arrangement (non-medical)
    • Transportation to doctors appointments

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Computer center
    • Dining room
    • Fitness room
    • Gaming room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space
    • Small library
    • Wellness center

    Community services

    • Concierge services
    • Fitness programs
    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Planned day trips
    • Resident-run activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    4.35 · 37 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      3.9
    • Staff

      4.0
    • Meals

      3.9
    • Amenities

      4.4
    • Value

      3.3

    Pros

    • Caring and conscientious nursing and office staff
    • Consistent caregivers / familiar staff
    • Conscientious housekeeping and maintenance (many reports of cleanliness)
    • Extremely clean and well-kept common areas (frequently mentioned)
    • Attractive common areas and gardens (fresh flowers, piano, outdoor gazebos)
    • Plenty and variety of programs and activities (classes, outings, holiday programs)
    • Strong social life and resident-led activities (exercise, prayer, family events)
    • Good therapy and medical services (in-house doctor, Rehab OT/PT)
    • Services such as meals delivered to rooms, cleaning, laundry, salon and nail care
    • Dining hall social dining and varied breakfast options
    • Comfortable, hotel-like ambiance and welcoming atmosphere
    • Helpful, friendly kitchen and dining staff (reported by many)
    • Move-in satisfaction and multiple recommendations from families
    • Perceived value by some families (fair pricing relative to services)
    • Supportive, family-like atmosphere and staff who treat residents with dignity

    Cons

    • Food quality decline reported after a new chef (overcooked vegetables, less meat, not heart-healthy)
    • Dining room incidents and occasional rude or insensitive dining staff
    • Seating arrangements in dining room can limit socialization
    • Weekend shifts may have fewer staff / reduced coverage
    • Expensive / high cost and pricing tied to level of care; some residents feel trapped by costs
    • Facility is aging despite being well maintained
    • Small private rooms reported by some residents
    • Staff unresponsiveness and failures to check on residents during shifts
    • Charge nurse or staff not responding adequately to falls or emergencies
    • Serious safety/cleanliness incidents reported (bed bugs outbreak, feces in downstairs restroom, urine smell)
    • Use of chemical restraints instead of redirection reported
    • Allegations of lack of experienced elder-care staff, laziness, or poor staff attitude
    • Specific reports of unprofessional staff behavior (named nurse and berating incidents)
    • No drug testing reported by reviewers
    • Placement/assessment concerns (example: insulin-dependent diabetic placed at a lower care level)
    • Trash/cleanliness issues in some areas (trash not emptied daily)
    • Long waiting list

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment across the reviews is mixed but leans positive on culture, social life, and basic services, while showing recurring and at times serious concerns about food quality, certain safety and cleanliness incidents, staffing consistency, and cost. Many reviewers emphasize a warm, family-like atmosphere, caring and consistent caregivers, an attractive and well-kept facility, and a robust calendar of activities that support an active social life. At the same time, a subset of reviews describe troubling lapses — some administrative or staff behavior issues, sanitation incidents, and clinical-safety concerns — that deserve attention.

    Care quality and staff: The most consistent positive theme is that many residents and family members find the staff caring, conscientious, and familiar. Multiple comments note consistent caregivers, compassionate care, dignity and respect shown to residents, and staff who appear to like their jobs. Families frequently praise nursing, aides, and therapy services (including an in-house doctor and Rehab OT/PT). However, counterbalancing this are multiple reports describing staff unresponsiveness (failure to check on residents during a shift), poor responses to falls or emergencies, and isolated but severe allegations of staff berating residents or being unprofessional. There are also claims of insufficient experience among some staff, laziness, and management failures to address poor performance. A few reviews call out specific staff members by name for unprofessional conduct. Taken together, the pattern suggests generally strong frontline caregiving for many residents, with intermittent and sometimes serious lapses in oversight, training, or accountability.

    Facilities and cleanliness: Many reviewers praise the facility’s appearance and upkeep: clean, hotel-like common areas, fresh flowers, piano, pleasant grounds and gardens, outdoor gazebos, and attractive communal spaces. Housekeeping and maintenance are frequently described as conscientious and effective. Yet several reviews report acute sanitation problems — a downstairs restroom found with feces, a persistent urine smell, trash not emptied daily in some areas, and a reported bed bug outbreak. These are serious outliers compared with the generally positive cleanliness comments, indicating that while overall housekeeping is viewed highly, occasional breaches of sanitation standards have occurred and were memorable enough to be raised by multiple reviewers.

    Dining and food services: Dining is a mixed picture. Numerous reviewers praise the dining hall as social and enjoyable, with varied breakfast options, multiple entrées, and friendly kitchen staff in many accounts. Conversely, a recurring complaint centers on a decline in food quality after the arrival of a new chef: overcooked vegetables, less meat, and offerings described as less heart-healthy. Some reviewers also note temperature and food-preparation issues, rude or insensitive dining room staff in certain shifts, and seating arrangements that limit social interaction. These mixed reports suggest that the dining experience varies by shift, by staff on duty, and possibly by recent management changes in the kitchen.

    Activities and social life: One of the strongest, most consistent positives is the breadth and vibrancy of activities. Reviewers mention resident-led exercise, evening prayer, school visitors, college-level classes (painting), outings, holiday programs, chapel and volunteer activities, newsletters, family dinner events, bingo, and many other organized opportunities. This robust programming contributes to reports of extended life, active social lives, many friendships, and overall high resident satisfaction in social and recreational dimensions.

    Management, safety, and staffing patterns: Several reviews raise concerns about staffing levels (notably on weekends), management responsiveness, and policies. Reviewers mentioned long waiting lists and pricing structures tied to levels of care (and a potential subsidy trigger after four years), which affects affordability and perceptions of being 'trapped' by costs. More alarming are reported practices such as use of chemical restraints rather than redirection, no drug testing policies, and specific placement errors (for example, an insulin-dependent diabetic placed in a lower care level). These reports, along with allegations of bed bugs and serious lapses in emergency response, suggest governance and clinical oversight areas that warrant investigation and corrective action despite many positive care reports.

    Cost and value: Several reviewers describe Marian Manor as expensive, with pricing tied to level of care and potential additional costs over time; some feel pricing is fair for services received, while others feel trapped by costs or uncertain about value. There are also mentions of long wait lists, implying demand is strong despite cost concerns.

    Synthesis and recommendations: In sum, Marian Manor appears to deliver a strong social environment, a comprehensive activity program, and many examples of compassionate, professional caregiving and well-maintained communal spaces. Those strengths are repeatedly cited as reasons families are satisfied and would recommend the community. However, the presence of multiple, specific negative reports — especially around food quality changes, occasional sanitation lapses (including very serious incidents like a bed bug outbreak and feces in a restroom), staff unresponsiveness in emergencies, and reported use of chemical restraints — create notable risks that temper overall confidence.

    For prospective residents and families: the facility’s social programming, therapy services, and many examples of excellent day-to-day care are compelling reasons to consider Marian Manor. During a tour or intake, strongly recommend asking about recent sanitation incidents and remediation measures, staffing levels (including weekend coverage), emergency response protocols, staff training and turnover, dining management (including menus and heart-healthy options), placement assessments for higher-acuity needs (e.g., insulin-dependent residents), and any policies on restraints and drug testing. For management: addressing the discrepant negative reports — particularly safety, sanitation, and staff accountability — should be a priority to preserve the community’s otherwise strong reputation.

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    About Marian Manor Retirement Community

    Marian Manor Retirement Community in Virginia Beach, VA, has been a not-for-profit, nondenominational community since 1989, offering independent living, assisted living, adult day care, memory care, and home health services, and the community serves residents mostly aged 55 and older in private studio apartments or two-room suites with cozy seating areas and four-poster beds, furnished kitchenettes, walk-in closets, and designated private bathrooms, and the rooms are pet-friendly, too, which is nice if someone has a companion animal. Residents get three restaurant-style meals a day with choices for special diets like gluten-free, low sodium, vegetarian, and pureed meals, plus there's an all-inclusive utilities package, so you don't have to worry about separate bills, and a backup generator is on site for emergencies. The staff includes registered and licensed nurses on duty 24 hours a day, and there's a full emergency response system in every unit, so if something happens, help's always close by, and the medical services cover medication management, high acuity care, diabetic care, incontinence care, and hospice support, with speech, physical, and occupational therapy available in-house for both short-term and ongoing rehab needs, and even pet and personal care therapy.

    Everyone gets the comfort of housekeeping and laundry services, and the building is fully handicap and wheelchair accessible, with wide, ground-floor units, cable TV, Wi-Fi, air conditioning, garden views, and shower access, and residents can keep busy or relax on the lovely front porch, walk the outdoor paths, spend time by the koi pond or gazebo, or take part in gardening in the outdoor spaces, and there's a library, craft and game rooms, private dining rooms for social meals, a spa on-site, and a chapel facing lakeside sunsets, plus an on-site Pastoral Counselor for spiritual needs, along with faith-based activities like Bible study and prayer groups. Security is important, so there's 24-hour controlled entry, regular patrols, and staff monitoring, which helps everyone feel safe and calm, especially at night; transportation is also provided for medical appointments, social outings, day trips, shopping, and local events, and resident parking's available, too.

    The community calendar is full of activities-happy hours, ballroom dance classes, outdoor picnics, service projects, holiday celebrations, and service opportunities for residents who like to help out and give back-but of course, people can enjoy quieter moments if they like, with tranquil walking paths and a peaceful indoor chapel. The dining room is newly renovated with vaulted ceilings and nice views, and there are spaces for gatherings during special celebrations like spring festivals or cozy holiday meals.

    Amenities cover almost everything someone might need, whether it's physical support through four levels of assisted living care, medication help, emotional and mental support, or just an active lifestyle and friendship; the compassionate staff works closely with each resident, encouraging independence, trust, and personal satisfaction while respecting privacy and individuality. The building is a mid-rise, close to local shopping, dining, art, and entertainment, as well as Sentara Leigh Hospital, and guests can schedule a tour or pick up a brochure to learn more about the lifestyle and comfort offered here. Marian Manor is open to people of all faiths and backgrounds, sponsored by the Catholic Diocese of Richmond but not limited to any one group; it's been recognized for care in Hampton Roads and is known for focusing on resident health, happiness, and safety. Families in the area have trusted the community for years, knowing their loved ones will have access to good care with plenty of ways to stay active, make friends, and live with dignity.

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