Polly's Adult Family Home

    19108 NE 18th St, Vancouver, WA, 98684
    3.7 · 29 reviews
    • Assisted living
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    2.0

    Warm staff, serious safety concerns

    I had a mixed experience. The place feels home-like - Polly (an RN) and many long-tenured staff were warm, compassionate, and attentive; meals are home-cooked, grounds are lovely, and they do thoughtful holiday/events and good end-of-life care. But I also encountered serious red flags: medication safety lapses, residents neglected or left unbathed, frequent reports of theft/sale of belongings and misuse of food stamps, verbally abusive or threatening staff, small overpriced rooms, and unsanitary practices. I'd recommend close oversight, verifying licensing and finances, and frequent visits before trusting a loved one here.

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    3.72 · 29 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      3.4
    • Staff

      3.5
    • Meals

      2.2
    • Amenities

      3.7
    • Value

      1.0

    Pros

    • Compassionate, attentive staff
    • Owner is a registered nurse (RN)
    • Small facility with low resident count
    • Long‑tenured, experienced staff
    • Personalized/individualized care plans
    • Home‑like, welcoming atmosphere
    • Private rooms and personal touches
    • Cooked, home‑style meals prepared daily
    • Pet‑friendly environment
    • Park‑like grounds with garden, pond, and pool
    • Active holiday/entertainment programming
    • Quick response times and less wait for care
    • Supportive end‑of‑life/hospice care
    • Families report residents are well loved and comfortable
    • Good communication with health providers (per some reviews)

    Cons

    • Allegations of theft of residents' belongings
    • Claims that staff sell or pawn residents' items
    • Accusations of misuse of residents' food stamps
    • Serious allegations of physical, verbal, and emotional abuse
    • Medication safety issues (dropped meds, residents handling meds)
    • Reports of neglect (residents not bathed for months)
    • Claims that some residents are starved or meals withheld
    • Unequal meals/treatment between sides of facility
    • Poor food quality described by some reviewers
    • Sanitation concerns (unsanitary conditions, hygiene lapses)
    • Alleged unlicensed operation and over‑capacity admissions
    • Accusations of welfare/financial fraud and extortion
    • Owner/staff gambling and money‑focused behavior alleged
    • Reports of staff manipulation, lying, and unhelpfulness
    • Sexual misconduct allegations against staff/contractors
    • Price concerns and perceived overcharging (example: $3,000/month)
    • Rooms described as too small by some reviewers
    • Discrepancy in care reports (some say superior, others say neglect)
    • Medication and food handling practices that risk infection
    • Reports of staff laziness and poor professionalism
    • Staff reportedly hiding dishes and not feeding residents
    • Claims that residents' belongings are stolen and sold
    • Inconsistent housekeeping/cleanliness reports
    • Allegations of threatening or intimidating behavior toward families
    • Contradictory reputational reports making verification difficult

    Summary review

    The review set for Polly's Adult Family Home is sharply polarized, with a substantial cluster of very positive testimonials alongside a significant number of serious, sometimes criminal‑sounding allegations. Multiple reviewers describe the home as small, family‑style, and staffed by compassionate, long‑tenured caregivers — including an owner who is an RN — and praise the individualized care plans, private rooms, home‑cooked meals, pet friendliness, park‑like grounds (garden, pond, pool), and active holiday/entertainment programming. Several commenters — including a hospice nurse and family members — report that residents receive attentive, dignified end‑of‑life care, quick responses to needs, and feel loved and comfortable. These reviewers often highlight professionalism, warm communication with healthcare providers, and a genuine home atmosphere.

    Contrastingly, a sizable number of reviews allege severe problems that raise safety, legal, and ethical concerns. Recurrent negative claims include theft of residents' possessions, staff selling or otherwise disposing of personal items, and misuse or diversion of residents' food stamps. Multiple reviewers assert neglectful care practices such as residents going long periods without showers, meals being withheld or of extremely poor quality, and unequal meal distribution across different parts of the home. Medication safety is a repeated worry: accounts mention medication being dropped on the floor, residents being asked to pick up their own medications, and generally unsafe handling that could spread infection. There are also allegations of unsanitary conditions (including improvised bathing practices like using a toilet chair for showering), staff misconduct, verbal and physical abuse, intimidation, and even sexual allegations against certain employees or contractors.

    Management and regulatory concerns are a common theme among negative reviews. Accusations range from operating beyond licensed capacity and running unlicensed services to committing welfare fraud, extorting money from residents, and running a money‑focused or gambling‑influenced operation. Several reviewers identify the owner or administrator as dishonest, manipulative, or unhelpful; others explicitly praise the owner and leadership — a stark contradiction that suggests the reviews may reflect multiple experiences over time or at different points in management/staffing. Price and value are also disputed: some families feel the monthly fee (one example cited at $3,000/month) is excessive given the room size or quality of services, while others believe the care justifies the cost.

    Facilities, dining, and activities elicit mixed reactions. Positive reviewers describe real cooked meals, homey touches, entertainers and holiday celebrations, and well maintained grounds. Negative reviewers counter with descriptions of poor food quality, hidden or missing dishes, and alleged manipulation of food stamp benefits. Physical space is another divided area: many appreciate private rooms and roomy home settings, while some complain rooms are too small or that cleanliness standards are inadequate.

    Overall, the pattern that emerges is one of high variability in resident experience: some families consistently report excellent, compassionate, and professional care in a comfortable, home‑like setting, while others report alarming allegations involving theft, neglect, unsafe medication handling, and potential fraudulent practices. These conflicting narratives make it essential for prospective families to perform thorough due diligence: verify licensing and complaint records with local regulators, request references from recent families and hospice providers, tour the home multiple times at different hours, ask detailed questions about medication management, safeguarding of personal belongings, staff background checks and turnover, policies for showers and meals, and obtain clear written agreements about fees and services. Given the severity of the allegations in some reviews, checking state inspection reports and any substantiated complaints is especially important before making a placement decision.

    Location

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    About Polly's Adult Family Home

    Polly's Adult Family Home, also known as Polly's Country Adult Family Home, sits in Vancouver, Washington, and offers residential care for seniors who need a bit more help but want to live in a homey setting. The facility has six assisted living units, including private rooms and well-equipped studio units, with some shared living quarters and one-bedroom units, so there's a bit of flexibility depending on what anybody wants or needs. The staff knows how to help seniors with Parkinson's, dementia, diabetes, and Alzheimer's, and they can help with basic things like moving around, dressing, and even spoon feeding if needed. The home also allows cats and dogs, so residents can keep pets close by.

    Residents can count on a simple, inviting layout that feels like a big house more than a facility, with a large common area and a central dining space where all meals are included and planned by on-site dietitians and chefs, paying close attention to personal dietary needs and preferences, including dementia-friendly menus and special diets. There's also laundry service, housekeeping, trash removal, pharmacy services, a barber and beauty shop, massage therapy, and individualized dining assistance. Staff members have long experience here, some working for six to twenty years, and they're trained to give attentive, loving care, always keeping safety in mind with 24-hour emergency response and a security system running all day and night.

    Amenities include a small fitness section, a movie theater, social and educational activities, a cafe, transportation, and parking, which make daily life easier and more enjoyable. Polly's has a strong focus on adult day care and respite care for both men and women who only need a few hours or most of the day, delivering high-quality care in a safe and loving place. They create custom needs assessments and personalized care plans for every resident, adjusting services to what each person really requires and can afford. The place only serves about six people at a time, which allows for a family-like, nurturing atmosphere where everybody knows each other and the staff can pay attention to every individual.

    Residents live in a supportive environment close to cafes, parks, pharmacies, and restaurants, so there's still a sense of community connection. Polly's is known for its friendly, joyful, and helpful staff who support emotional and physical well-being, aiming to help seniors thrive. The fees for a private room start at $3,200 a month, and with services spanning from memory care to diabetic care and general assisted living, the home is equipped to address a range of senior needs in a small, comfortable, and friendly setting focused on safety, nutrition, and a sense of belonging.

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