Pricing ranges from
    $6,967 – 9,057/month

    The Ivy at Ellington Assisted Living and Memory Care

    123 West Rd, Ellington, CT, 06029
    4.5 · 29 reviews
    • Independent living
    • Assisted living
    • Memory care
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    3.0

    Nice facility; poor memory-care safety

    I found the facility beautiful, clean, and homelike - cozy, spacious apartments, good food, lots of activities and outings, and many staff who are warm, friendly and attentive. However, I experienced serious problems with nursing and memory care: poor communication, missing meds, rude managers/nurses at times, and dangerously low night staffing (sometimes only one caregiver), so I would not trust it for someone with dementia. For independent or assisted living it's a nice, well-run place worth the price; for memory-care needs, look elsewhere.

    Pricing

    $6,967+/moSemi-privateAssisted Living
    $8,360+/mo1 BedroomAssisted Living
    $9,057+/moStudioAssisted Living

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Coordination with health care providers
    • Hospice waiver
    • Medication management
    • Mental wellness program

    Healthcare staffing

    • 12-16 hour nursing
    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Air-conditioning
    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Private bathrooms
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Memory care community services

    • Dementia waiver
    • Mild cognitive impairment
    • Specialized memory care programming

    Transportation

    • Community operated transportation
    • Transportation arrangement
    • Transportation arrangement (medical)
    • Transportation arrangement (non-medical)
    • Transportation to doctors appointments

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Computer center
    • Dining room
    • Fitness room
    • Gaming room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space
    • Small library
    • Wellness center

    Community services

    • Concierge services
    • Fitness programs
    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Planned day trips
    • Resident-run activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    4.52 · 29 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      3.6
    • Staff

      4.3
    • Meals

      3.3
    • Amenities

      4.6
    • Value

      3.3

    Pros

    • Caring, warm and friendly staff
    • Staff know residents by name and are highly personable
    • Outstanding and dedicated caregiving acknowledged by many families
    • Welcoming, homey and comfortable atmosphere
    • Clean, bright, modern and well-maintained facility
    • Well-designed, airy apartments with high ceilings and large windows
    • Cozy apartments with weekly cleaning and linen service
    • On-site amenities (dining area, bar room, game room, garden, sunrooms)
    • Varied, well-planned activities and frequent outings
    • Memory care program with structured activities and biweekly field trips (reported by some)
    • Transportation/van service to appointments
    • Dining generally described as good and mostly on-time
    • Accessible receptionists and smooth move-in experience for many
    • Proactive focus on resident safety and improved wellbeing (in many accounts)
    • Family engagement (activity photos, communication) and helpfulness

    Cons

    • Staffing turnover, especially among nursing staff
    • Communication gaps with nursing and management; families must often ask for updates
    • Occasional medication errors or missing doses without notification
    • Reported unsafe staffing ratios, particularly in memory care/dementia units
    • Some reports of poor or deplorable care and broken promises by management
    • Instances of families feeling misled by directors and that management is profit-driven
    • Insufficient nighttime supervision reported by some (e.g., only one caregiver on a floor)
    • Higher price compared with some peers
    • Glitches associated with changes to nursing services or activity staff turnover
    • Not consistently suitable for residents with significant memory loss or dementia (per several urgent removal reports)

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment across the reviews is mixed but leans positive: many families and residents praise The Ivy at Ellington for its warm, home-like environment, modern and well-maintained facility, and staff who are personable, attentive, and often go above and beyond. The building and apartments receive consistent compliments — described as airy, bright, and well-designed with high ceilings and large windows. Practical conveniences such as weekly apartment cleaning, linen service, a dining room open roughly 7am–7pm, snacks/coffee availability, and a transport van to appointments are frequently noted and appreciated.

    Staff and caregiving are the most frequently praised aspects. Multiple reviews describe staff as outstanding, caring, knowledgeable, and able to form relationships with residents (learning names, greeting with smiles, encouraging activity participation). Families credit staff with tangible improvements in residents’ mood, safety, and pain management. Receptionists and front-desk personnel are repeatedly called friendly and helpful, and many reviewers report a smooth move-in process and good ongoing family engagement (including activity photos and regular outreach).

    Activities and social programming are another strong point cited by many reviewers. The community offers a wide variety of activities — fitness, crafts, movies, parties, shopping trips, and memory care field trips — and staff are described as encouraging involvement. Residents and families appreciate the frequency of outings and the effort to keep life engaging and social. The dining experience is generally regarded as good or decent, with meals enjoyed by many residents and service described as mostly on time.

    However, there are serious and recurring concerns related to clinical staffing, communication, and care consistency. Several reviews highlight nursing staff turnover and communication lapses — families sometimes must proactively request nursing updates rather than receiving regular reports. There are also multiple accounts of medication doses being missed without notification. A subset of reviews raise especially severe warnings about memory care: reports include unsafe staffing ratios, inadequate supervision of dementia patients (including assertions of only one caregiver on a floor at night), instances of deplorable care, and families who felt misled by management and had to urgently remove a loved one. These negative reports contrast sharply with the many positive caregiving accounts, indicating inconsistent experiences across residents and shifts.

    Management and administrative responsiveness show a mixed picture in the reviews. Several families commend management for being proactive, problem-solving, and accessible; others accuse management and certain directors of broken promises, profit-driven motives, or poor communication. There are mentions of operational glitches tied to transitions — e.g., a new nursing service rollout or activity director departures — that created temporary declines in perceived care quality but were reportedly improving in some cases.

    Price and value are also ambivalent: many reviewers say the cost is higher than some alternatives but felt the quality and staff justified the premium; a few call the pricing expensive compared to peers. Extras such as a military discount were noted positively.

    In summary, The Ivy at Ellington presents as a modern, attractive assisted living community with a strong emphasis on social programming, a welcoming atmosphere, and many staff who are compassionate and engaged. These strengths make it a good fit for many seniors seeking a comfortable, active, and friendly environment. At the same time, there are multiple, substantive red flags — most importantly around staffing consistency, nursing communication, medication administration, and memory-care supervision. Because these clinical and safety issues vary by shift and over time, prospective residents and families should perform focused due diligence: ask for current staffing ratios (day/night and in memory care), inquire about turnover rates and recent incidents, request specifics on medication administration and notification protocols, observe activity and dining at different times of day, and speak with families of current memory-care residents. Doing so will help determine whether The Ivy’s frequently praised strengths are consistent enough to meet an individual’s or loved one’s needs, especially for those requiring close clinical oversight or dementia-specific care.

    Location

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    About The Ivy at Ellington Assisted Living and Memory Care

    The Ivy at Ellington is a welcoming assisted living community nestled in the heart of Ellington, Connecticut, a town celebrated for its close-knit atmosphere and rural charm. This community reflects the deep-rooted traditions and strong family ties that are characteristic of the area, offering seniors a rare opportunity to remain in a familiar environment surrounded by the comforts of home. With a reputation for having more cows than people, Ellington provides a peaceful, small-town setting for those who value stability, neighborly connection, and local pride.

    Residents of The Ivy at Ellington can look forward to a vibrant lifestyle that balances independence with personalized support. The community features 79 thoughtfully designed one- and two-bedroom apartments in a home-like setting, offering both elegance and comfort as part of daily living. Emphasis is placed on fostering an active and enriching environment, with a wide variety of activities—ranging from educational trips and local history tours to special outings—that encourage social engagement and lifelong learning. The Ivy at Ellington is especially proud to serve a diverse resident population, including members of the strong Swiss Apostolic community, who bring a tradition of close family ties and shared values to the community.

    Dining at The Ivy at Ellington is an experience rooted in the local culture, with residents enjoying daily meals inspired by the flavors and traditions of Connecticut cuisine. The culinary team is committed to providing restaurant-style meals that are both delicious and nourishing. Social activities abound and are tailored to the needs and interests of each resident, helping to create a lively and supportive atmosphere where everyone can feel a sense of belonging.

    In addition to its standard assisted living services, The Ivy at Ellington is home to the Reflections Memory Care program. This specialized environment is designed for individuals living with Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia, providing a nurturing setting where highly trained staff deliver individualized care with compassion and respect. Residents in Reflections benefit from daily routines that include activities and therapies developed to promote cognitive stimulation, engagement, and quality of life. The focus is on fostering meaningful connections among residents and staff, so families can rest assured that their loved ones are in capable and caring hands.

    Faith and spirituality are thoughtfully accommodated as well. Monthly rosary services are available in the Ellington community, and support is offered to assist residents in attending these spiritual gatherings. Virtual worship services are also provided, making it possible for residents to participate in religious observances from the comfort of their own apartments, regardless of mobility or health concerns.

    The Ivy at Ellington stands as a modern and supportive choice for seniors who wish to stay active, remain close to family, and be part of a compassionate community. With its tailored care services, engaging enrichment programs, and strong commitment to valuing residents’ unique backgrounds and contributions, The Ivy at Ellington offers a secure and fulfilling setting where seniors can thrive.

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