Pricing ranges from
    $3,944 – 5,127/month

    St. Joseph of the Pines

    103 Gossman Dr, Pinehurst, NC, 28387
    3.4 · 52 reviews
    • Independent living
    • Assisted living
    • Memory care
    • Skilled nursing
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    2.0

    Beautiful facility, but care inconsistent

    I had a deeply mixed experience. The campus, grounds and amenities are beautiful - lots of activities, dining options, pool, shuttle and several truly caring staff (Becca, Beth, Theresa, John were often singled out) and some residents saw real rehab and health improvements. But care is wildly inconsistent: chronic understaffing, long call-button/phone response times, shabby rooms/equipment in places, reports of theft, billing confusion, poor or negligent nursing/rehab and dismissive management. I wouldn't trust them blindly - vet staffing, security and leadership responsiveness before placing a loved one.

    Pricing

    $3,944+/moSemi-privateAssisted Living
    $4,732+/mo1 BedroomAssisted Living
    $5,127+/moStudioAssisted Living

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Assistance with dressing
    • Medication management
    • Mental wellness program

    Healthcare staffing

    • 12-16 hour nursing
    • 24-hour call system

    Meals and dining

    • Meal preparation and service
    • Restaurant-style dining

    Room

    • Air-conditioning
    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Private bathrooms
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Transportation

    • Community operated transportation
    • Transportation arrangement
    • Transportation arrangement (non-medical)

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Computer center
    • Dining room
    • Fitness room
    • Gaming room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space
    • Small library
    • Wellness center

    Community services

    • Concierge services
    • Fitness programs
    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Planned day trips
    • Resident-run activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    3.44 · 52 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      2.3
    • Staff

      2.9
    • Meals

      3.3
    • Amenities

      3.7
    • Value

      1.8

    Pros

    • Beautiful, well-maintained campus and landscaping
    • Spacious homes and apartments
    • Extensive on-site amenities (pool, gym, salon, library, bank)
    • Active social scene and organized activities (classes, concerts, bridge, Mahjong, golf)
    • Multiple dining areas and clubhouse with three dining rooms
    • Shuttle service and convenient location for golfers (multiple courses)
    • Separate care areas (assisted living/Coventry wing and skilled nursing)
    • Examples of highly engaged, compassionate staff and clinicians
    • Notable individual staff praised by name (e.g., NP Theresa, CNA John Lamblin, PT Becca, social worker Beth Price)
    • Successful rehab outcomes reported by some families
    • Cleanliness and professional care reported in many reviews
    • Spiritual offerings (Eucharist in chapel) and community feel
    • Maintenance-free living and security/safety for many residents
    • Educational partnerships offering classes (local college)

    Cons

    • Long call-button response times and delayed assistance
    • Chronic short-staffing and understaffed shifts (especially weekends)
    • Inconsistent staff quality — wide variability between caring and uncaring employees
    • Allegations of neglect, elder abuse, and dismissive treatment by some staff
    • Reports of theft by staff (hearing aids, phones, glasses) and missing items
    • Privacy and HIPAA violations (medical/financial info discussed openly)
    • Poor accountability from management and unhelpful/ dismissive administration
    • Inconsistent or poor rehab/therapy effectiveness for some residents
    • Dirty or shabby rooms and equipment; specific reports of blood-stained linens and soiled areas
    • Food complaints (repetitive menu, poor quality, lack of diet adherence)
    • Laundry loss/damage and belongings disappearing
    • Phone/unreachable staff issues (no operator, hung-up calls, unanswered calls)
    • Billing concerns and charges for equipment not received
    • Medical errors and safety incidents (insulin spill, oxygen outage, improper placement)
    • Placement mismatches (rehab vs nursing home needs not aligned)
    • Weekend therapy coverage lacking

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment across reviews for St. Joseph of the Pines is strongly mixed, with reviewers describing experiences that range from exceptionally positive (compassionate staff, successful rehab, beautiful campus and active lifestyle) to deeply negative (neglect, theft, dirty conditions, and management failure). Multiple reviewers praise the campus, amenities, and community life: the grounds, walking trails, saltwater pool, gym, library, salon, and numerous organized activities (bridge, Mahjong, concerts, classes, golf) create an appealing independent-living environment for many residents. Apartments and homes are often described as spacious and resort-like, and shuttle service and nearby golf are highlighted as conveniences for active retirees. Several reviews emphasize that the facility can provide a maintenance-free, social, and enriching environment with good food and spiritual offerings, and a number of families report excellent care, significant rehabilitation gains, attentive clinicians, and staff members who went above and beyond.

    Care quality and staffing emerge as the most polarizing themes. Numerous reviewers report kind, knowledgeable, and dedicated staff — including named clinicians and aides who made a meaningful difference. Conversely, a similar number of reviewers describe severe problems: long delays in responding to call buttons, short staffing (especially overnight and weekends), unresponsiveness by nurses or operators, and attendants who appear disengaged or even abusive. Several reviews recount alarming incidents: neglected residents left to call for help, inappropriate guidance regarding toileting, medical errors (such as an insulin spill), oxygen machine outages, and accounts of worsening conditions while in rehab or nursing wings. Rehab and therapy results are inconsistent in the reviews: some families credit physical therapy and skilled clinicians with meaningful improvement, while others call rehab "a joke," report minimal progress, raggedy equipment, and no weekend therapy coverage.

    Safety, privacy, and trust issues are frequent and serious concerns. Multiple reports allege theft of personal belongings (hearing aids, phones, reading glasses) and a broader “culture of theft” acknowledged in some HR interactions. Privacy complaints include staff openly discussing residents’ medical or financial information, suggesting HIPAA violations in practice. Cleanliness and infection-control concerns appear in both extremes: some reviewers call the facility exceptionally clean and professionally run, while others report filthy rooms, blood-stained linens, soiled chairs, overflowing diapers, and food splatter on walls. These conflicting accounts indicate inconsistent operational standards across units or shifts.

    Management, communication, and billing practices attract sustained criticism. Many reviewers feel that administration is dismissive of complaints, inadequately responsive to family concerns, or focused on billing rather than patient welfare ("dollar sign on ledger"). There are specific allegations of bills for equipment not provided and lack of follow-through after formal complaints, with some families escalating to state agencies. Phone and communication breakdowns — unanswered calls, hung-up nurses, wrong contact numbers — compound family frustration and leave residents and families feeling unsafe or ignored. Additionally, several reviewers caution about placement mismatches (residents admitted to a level of care that did not meet their clinical needs), underscoring the importance of confirming staffing, services, and clinical oversight before move-in.

    Dining, laundry, and amenities show mixed impressions. While many residents praise the food and variety and recommend the dining experience, a substantial minority complain about repetitive menus (reports of daily chicken fingers and canned vegetables), lack of dietary adherence, and poor meal quality. Laundry issues — lost or damaged clothing and missing items — are a recurring complaint that contributes to distrust. Conversely, other reviews emphasize plentiful activities, friendly residents, and thoughtful programming that enhance quality of life.

    Patterns and recommendations: The reviews point to a facility with strong strengths in campus, amenities, community programming, and pockets of highly skilled, compassionate staff — making it a potentially excellent option for independent or well-supported assisted living residents. However, significant and recurring weaknesses — variable staff competency, documented safety and privacy concerns, inconsistent cleanliness, theft allegations, billing problems, and managerial unresponsiveness — create real risk, particularly for residents requiring skilled nursing or round-the-clock care.

    If considering St. Joseph of the Pines, prospective residents and families should: (1) do multiple in-person visits across different days and shifts to observe staffing and cleanliness; (2) ask for written, specific staffing ratios for the unit and weekend coverage for therapy; (3) verify incident reporting procedures, turnover rates, and outcomes of state complaints; (4) request sample menus and diet-adherence protocols; (5) clarify billing practices and get any equipment or service commitments in writing; (6) interview frontline staff and ask for references from current residents/families; and (7) confirm privacy/HIPAA practices. The reviews suggest that experiences can vary dramatically by unit, time, and staff on duty — due diligence and clear contract terms are essential to avoid the kinds of problems some families described while preserving the chance to benefit from the community’s many positive attributes.

    Location

    Map showing location of St. Joseph of the Pines

    About St. Joseph of the Pines

    St. Joseph of the Pines sits at 103 Gossman Drive in Southern Pines, NC, and folks know it as a place that covers a wide range of senior living needs, from independent living and assisted living to skilled nursing, memory care, and therapy. The community looks after people who want an active retirement in their own cottages or studio apartments, as well as those who need more help every day, and they offer both short-term rehab and long-term care for people with health challenges like cardiac issues, stroke, pain, and memory loss due to dementia or Alzheimer's. The health center and Siler City Care and Rehabilitation Center deliver 24-hour skilled nursing, physical therapy, speech, occupational, and restorative care, with pharmacy support and help for bathing, dressing, eating, and medication management.

    The grounds are secured and have walking paths, outdoor gardens, patios, and furnished gathering places where people join gardening groups, walk pets, or sit and visit. There's guest parking, scheduled transportation, and plenty of indoor activities-whether that's music groups, movie nights, lectures, game rooms, arts and crafts, or activities planned by the staff and residents. Some folks gather for tennis, use the Jacuzzi and pool, or spend time in the fitness room, while others relax in the spa or get a haircut at the on-site salon and barber. The library, computer area, and lounges with TV and internet offer space for everyone to enjoy.

    The kitchen inside the resident rooms gives people some privacy for simple meals, though many folks join friends in the bistro or community dining rooms, eating meals made by chefs who accommodate different diets like diabetes or food allergies, and room service is available for anyone who wants to stay in. Housekeeping and laundry services are on hand, and there's move-in coordination for new residents. Every room has air conditioning, private bathrooms, WiFi, cable TV, and an emergency alert system for safety.

    Awards recognize St. Joseph of the Pines for its nutritious meals and activities that bring people together physically, mentally, and emotionally, and the community tries to support a joyful, kind, and welcoming environment through its staff. There's always something scheduled-field trips, story times, religious services, support for family and resident councils, and special programs so people can keep their minds sharp and their days full. The facility's health team is set up to meet all kinds of care needs, and its pricing is all-inclusive, with payments by card or check. People are encouraged to make appointments for health center services, with office hours from Monday to Thursday, 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., and Friday until 3 p.m. The place focuses on helping residents of all wellness levels, giving everyone plenty of choices for how to spend their days and what kind of help to receive.

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