Stanley Total Living Center

    514 Old Mt Holly Rd, Stanley, NC, 28164
    3.7 · 39 reviews
    • Independent living
    • Assisted living
    • Memory care
    • Skilled nursing
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    4.0

    Caring staff but inconsistent care

    I placed a loved one here and have mixed but mostly grateful feelings. The staff are warm, compassionate, and go far beyond expectations - therapy, activities, rehab and end-of-life support are excellent, rooms and common areas are bright and generally very clean, and pricing/Medicaid availability is a plus. That said, admissions and paperwork were stressful, staffing can be thin with slow responses, and there have been occasional cleanliness/meal odors and troubling care lapses that made me cautious. Overall I appreciate the caring team and community, but I recommend visiting, asking hard questions about staffing and admissions, and watching for consistency in care.

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Medication management

    Healthcare staffing

    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Air-conditioning
    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Private bathrooms
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Transportation

    • Community operated transportation
    • Transportation arrangement
    • Transportation arrangement (non-medical)

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Computer center
    • Fitness room
    • Gaming room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space
    • Small library
    • Wellness center

    Community services

    • Concierge services
    • Fitness programs
    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Planned day trips
    • Resident-run activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    3.69 · 39 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      3.8
    • Staff

      3.7
    • Meals

      3.0
    • Amenities

      3.3
    • Value

      3.0

    Pros

    • Compassionate and caring staff
    • Exceptional end-of-life support
    • Highly recommended by many families and residents
    • Well-maintained and clean facility (many reports of sparkling/ sanitized)
    • Large, bright resident rooms
    • Inviting and home-like common areas
    • Multiple daily activities and frequent events
    • Full-time activities director
    • Therapy services and up-to-date rehab equipment
    • Successful rehab outcomes reported by some families
    • Continuum of care across independent living to skilled care
    • Individualized care for residents
    • Spiritual support and religious programming
    • Organized and courteous administration (in some reports)
    • Up-to-date transportation for outings
    • Strong sense of community with friendly residents
    • Volunteers and family visitation encouraged (in many reports)
    • Reasonably priced with Medicaid beds available
    • Attentive staff who respond promptly (many reviews)
    • 24-hour care availability
    • Neat, long-tenured, and professional caregivers
    • Pleasant, tree-covered entrance and easy drop-off access
    • Large conference/party area and multi-purpose rooms (ping pong, piano, movies)
    • Safe and supportive environment praised by families
    • Cleanliness and low-odor environment reported by several reviewers

    Cons

    • Reports of inconsistent staffing levels and limited staff on duty
    • Serious clinical incidents reported (aspiration, bed left down, bedsores)
    • Allegations of poor staff responsiveness during critical events
    • Some staff described as rude, disrespectful, or unhelpful
    • Food quality and taste concerns; meals cited as a major issue
    • Not suitable for dementia rehab according to some reviewers
    • Perceived lack of dementia-specific technology and support
    • Long wait times for assistance noted by families
    • Conflicting cleanliness reports; occasional urine or mealtime odors
    • Hospitals transfers and health deterioration reported after admission
    • Administrative issues during admissions and paperwork burden
    • Denied visitation and mishandled admission experiences for some families
    • Alleged financial/document handling concerns (mail, change of address)
    • Poor communication and ignored written requests in some cases
    • Medicare health rating concerns referenced (low health rating)
    • Some describe facility as tired or run-down despite cosmetic appeal
    • Not the newest or fanciest facility (appearance varies by building)
    • Small resident rooms reported by some families
    • Scattered reports of distressing resident incidents and outbursts
    • Contradictory impressions of management organization across reviews
    • Occasional equipment or amenity failures reported long-term (e.g., TV)
    • Admissions process described as emotionally stressful by some
    • Perception of inconsistent quality between units or shifts
    • Concerns about basic care lapses leading to hospitalization
    • Mixed impressions of meal service environment (smell during mealtimes)

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment across the reviews is mixed but leans positive regarding the human side of care and the social environment. A large number of reviewers emphasize compassionate, warm, and professional staff who create an uplifting, home-like atmosphere. Many families and residents report attentive caregivers, long-tenured employees, and staff who go beyond expectations — including exceptional end-of-life support, thoughtful communication with families, and individualized attention. These positives are reinforced by mentions of a strong sense of community: friendly residents, active family involvement, volunteers, multiple daily activities, outings, and spiritual programming. Physical attributes praised include bright large rooms, inviting common areas (multi-purpose room with piano and games), a tree-covered entrance with easy drop-off, updated transportation, and a sizable conference/party area that supports frequent events.

    Clinical and rehabilitation services receive mixed but notable praise. Several reviewers report successful rehab outcomes, up-to-date therapy equipment, and a capable therapy team, with some families saying they would consider the facility for themselves. The facility also supports a continuum of care from independent living through skilled nursing and offers Medicaid beds, which reviewers see as a positive for affordability and access. Administrative strengths are mentioned too: some reviewers find the administration organized and courteous, and many note that the facility is reasonably priced.

    Despite these strengths, there are recurring and serious concerns that create a mixed overall picture. Multiple reviews document inconsistent staffing levels, long wait times for assistance, and what reviewers perceive as inadequate staffing ratios. Several troubling clinical incidents are described in detail across reviews — including an aspiration event, bed left down, development of bedsores, and subsequent hospitalization or hospice transfer. These reports include allegations of poor responsiveness from nursing staff during emergencies and at least one account of a nurse advising hospitalization or suggesting a bleak outcome. Such accounts raise concerns about clinical oversight, consistency of care, and safety during certain shifts.

    Dementia care and specialized support appear to be areas of weakness for some reviewers. Several families explicitly state the facility was not suitable for dementia rehabilitation, citing lack of appropriate technology, inadequate staffing models for memory care, and poor treatment approaches. These critiques coexist with other reviewers praising the memory care unit and admissions staff, indicating variability by unit or by staff on different shifts.

    Food and dining are another area with divided opinions. Some reviewers call the food healthy and nutritious, while others strongly criticize meal quality and taste, labeling meals a major concern. There are also conflicting cleanliness impressions: many describe the building as sparkling clean and sanitized, with low odor, while other reports note urine smells or unpleasant odors during mealtimes. These contradictions suggest variability in housekeeping or odor control between units, floors, or at different times.

    Administrative and process issues are a repeated theme. Some families praise an organized admissions director and courteous administration, whereas others describe a stressful admissions process, excessive paperwork, denied visitation, mishandled admission logistics, and alleged financial or mail mishandling. Communication problems are reported in a number of reviews — ignored written requests, unreturned questions, and an overall 'scary' lack of communication in a few accounts. There are also reports noting the facility is not the newest or fanciest and that some buildings or units can feel tired or sterile, even when others are cosmetically appealing.

    In summary, the facility receives high marks for the compassion and dedication of many caregivers, the active social environment, and certain clinical and therapy strengths. However, reviewers also report serious lapses and variability in clinical care, staffing, dementia services, dining, cleanliness in some areas, and administrative processes. The pattern suggests that while many residents and families have very positive experiences and would recommend the center, there are nontrivial and potentially severe negative incidents and inconsistent practices that prospective residents and families should investigate. Recommended next steps for interested families would be to tour multiple units at different times of day, speak directly with nursing leadership about staffing levels and protocols for emergency events and dementia care, review recent health/Medicare quality reports, and ask for references from current families whose loved ones have similar care needs.

    Location

    Map showing location of Stanley Total Living Center

    About Stanley Total Living Center

    Stanley Total Living Center sits over on Old Mount Holly Road in Stanley, North Carolina, and you'll find it's a place with different levels of care for seniors, with skilled nursing, assisted living, independent apartments, and a special unit for folks who have memory loss, like Alzheimer's, and need a bit more security and support than most places give, and folks will notice it's the only spot in Gaston County to offer a safe, secure memory care unit meant for those with dementia who may wander. The place offers 106 beds for skilled nursing, and out of those, 20 are for residents in that memory care unit, and along with that, you've got 40 assisted living beds, most in private or semi-private rooms, so folks can get helped with bathing, dressing, eating, and taking their medicines from nursing staff that stay on hand all day and night, including licensed nurses and even a nurse practitioner popping in a couple days a week and the Medical Director coming every two weeks, and the staff tries hard to keep the nurse-to-resident ratio checked at all times. The independent living side gives seniors 20 apartments in one- and two-bedroom layouts that come with things like kitchens with modern appliances, in-unit washers and dryers, cable TV, phone and Wi-Fi, regular housekeeping, parking, three meals every day, and rides for doctor visits in a 20-mile stretch. Meals get made using good ingredients and folks can eat in a big dining hall or, in memory care, a personal dining room made more peaceful for those who might get overwhelmed. Residents can spend time inside in comfy living spaces, some with pianos or TVs, or sit out on the porch with rocking chairs and look out at the landscaping and pink crape myrtles, and if they want, join in devotional activities, outings, social gatherings, and games. Folks in skilled nursing and memory care also have access to services like physical, speech, occupational, and restorative nursing, plus visits from folks specializing in things like feet, teeth, eyes, hearing, and psychiatry, and there's an on-site beauty shop to help folks look sharp. The whole place meets federal rules for Medicare and Medicaid, stores and gives out medications, and takes a fair approach to housing without discrimination. Housekeeping and laundry are included across the community, and safety features like walk-in showers with bars are built in where needed. The facility's been getting the Best of the Best Award in Gaston County since 1998, and the community seems to value the way it's kept its focus on treating residents with dignity and respect right through all stages of getting older, and folks who call Stanley home often mention how welcome they feel each day.

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