Mommy Se Manor

    5001 Whistlers Bend Way, El Dorado Hills, CA, 95762
    4.2 · 13 reviews
    • Assisted living
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    5.0

    Mom thriving; clean, caring staff

    I put my mom here and she's thriving - the home is immaculate, warm and feels like family, with caring, knowledgeable staff experienced in dementia care. It's close, reasonably priced, provides transportation, and gives strong physical care for advanced dementia. Caveats: activities are minimal, food quality is inconsistent (some prepackaged/high-salt items and concerns about bulk serving/storage), and weekends can be understaffed/unresponsive. Overall I'm very pleased but would recommend confirming staffing and food-safety practices before you move in.

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    4.23 · 13 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      4.6
    • Staff

      4.5
    • Meals

      3.8
    • Amenities

      4.7
    • Value

      4.0

    Pros

    • Extremely clean facility
    • Home-like atmosphere and decor
    • Knowledgeable owner about dementia care
    • Caring, attentive, and patient staff/caregivers
    • Experienced caregivers (one with 30 years)
    • Residents appear happy and age-matched environment
    • Well-maintained, roomy, and comfortable house
    • Provides substantial physical care for advanced dementia
    • Reasonable pricing and good value
    • Flexible with dietary needs
    • Transportation provided and close to reviewers' homes
    • Owner and staff often exceed expectations and feel like family
    • Upscale, one-story newer home in a nice neighborhood

    Cons

    • Understaffed on weekends (weekend-only caregiver reported)
    • Unresponsive staff or poor communication in some cases
    • Incomplete tours or missing information during intake
    • Lack of price transparency (price not discussed)
    • Facility-centric rather than fully individualized care
    • Inconsistent meal quality (reports of average vs. appetizing)
    • Reports of prepackaged, high-salt, and canned foods
    • Food safety concerns (bulk storage/serving raised)
    • No scheduled written meal plans
    • Limited or no activities beyond TV; needs more engagement
    • Too quiet/limited social interaction for some residents
    • Concern about men in close proximity to female residents
    • Problematic or poor assistance from referral service (A Place for Mom)

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment: Reviews for Mommy Se Manor are strongly weighted toward positive experiences with cleanliness, a home-like environment, and compassionate caregiving, but there are recurring operational concerns prospective families should verify before committing.

    Care quality and staff: The dominant theme across reviews is that caregiving staff and the owner are attentive, patient, and experienced — reviewers repeatedly describe caregivers as caring, knowledgeable (particularly regarding dementia care), and in some cases with decades of experience. Several comments say residents seem happy and that the facility feels like family, with some reviewers reporting that their loved one "thrived" and that staff exceeded expectations. At the same time, a noteworthy minority report understaffing (especially weekends) and episodes of unresponsiveness; one reviewer specifically mentioned a weekend-only caregiver and concerns about inconsistent staff availability. There were also comments that care can feel "facility-centric" rather than fully individualized for every resident. Overall, hands-on physical care for advanced dementia is cited positively, but staffing levels and responsiveness appear uneven and worth confirming in person.

    Facilities and setting: Reviews consistently praise the physical home: very clean, nicely decorated, bright, roomy, and comfortable. The house is described as a newer, one-story home in an upscale neighborhood, which many reviewers saw as a plus for safety and convenience. Multiple reviewers used terms such as "immaculate," "homey," and "well maintained." These consistent comments indicate the facility provides a domestic, non-institutional setting that many families find reassuring.

    Dining and nutrition: Dining receives mixed reviews. Some reviewers praised appetizing, nutritious meals and a nice variety, while others reported concerns about average or low-quality food — specifically mentions of prepackaged, high-salt, and canned items. A few reviewers raised concrete food-safety and operational concerns, such as bulk food storage/serving practices and the absence of a posted or scheduled meal plan. A small set of reviewers said the facility is flexible with dietary needs, but variability in meal quality and safety practices is a clear pattern that prospective families should investigate directly.

    Activities and social engagement: A consistent critique is limited programming and social engagement. Several reviews state there are few activities beyond television and that the environment can be "too quiet" with little interaction. While some reviews note happy, age-matched peers and content residents, the absence of a robust activity schedule was a frequent shortcoming — reviewers explicitly said the facility "needs more activities." This is an important consideration for families prioritizing social and cognitive engagement.

    Management, tours, and transparency: Multiple reviewers noted positive aspects of management, including an owner who is bright, attentive, and experienced with dementia care. However, there are recurring complaints about incomplete tours or missing information during the tour/intake process, and at least one reviewer said price was not discussed. One reviewer also called out poor assistance from an external referral service (A Place for Mom), which is separate from the facility but affected the family's experience. Communication and transparency appear inconsistent across reviewers: some had excellent, reassuring interactions with management; others felt key details were omitted or unclear.

    Safety and other concerns: Beyond staffing and food issues, a few reviewers raised specific safety-related concerns — notably bulk food handling and a general comment about discomfort with men being in close proximity to a female resident. These are lower-frequency but important points that merit direct discussion during a visit.

    Bottom line and recommendations: Mommy Se Manor receives strong marks for cleanliness, a comforting home-like setting, experienced and caring staff, and effective dementia-focused physical care. However, consistent caveats relate to staffing stability (weekend coverage), variability in meal quality and food-safety practices, limited activity programming, and occasional communication or transparency gaps during tours and intake. Prospective families should: (1) confirm staffing levels and weekend coverage, (2) ask for written meal plans and details on food sourcing/serving and special-diet accommodations, (3) request an activity schedule and examples of resident engagement, (4) insist on clear pricing and complete tour information, and (5) observe staff–resident interaction during different times of day. Doing so will help verify that the generally positive care and environment reported by many reviewers align with your family's priorities and needs.

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    About Mommy Se Manor

    Mommy Se Manor sits in El Dorado Hills at 5001 Whistlers Bend Way and serves seniors who want care in a friendly and quiet neighborhood. The facility uses terms like assisted living, senior care, and senior living to describe its range of services, which cover needs from independent living to full medical and memory care. The community offers a small, homely atmosphere with 6 licensed beds and provides board and care homes where a handful of residents get daily help in a residential setting. Suites accommodate assisted living and memory care, and private baths are available. The manor runs under license number 092700660 and is operated by Dignified Home Care LLC.

    Residents get support from caregivers who are on site 24 hours, and nursing services are available around the clock from registered nurses, licensed vocational nurses, and certified nursing assistants. Residents can join social, educational, and exercise activities, with a full calendar to encourage connection and involvement. The staff helps with daily tasks like bathing, grooming, meal preparation, light housekeeping, and medication management. There's transportation to doctor visits and outings at a cost, and resident parking if someone still drives; sometimes rides are complimentary too.

    The manor pays close attention to each person's care, making sure to find a good balance between helping out and letting people stay as independent as possible. Residents have access to meals, indoor and outdoor shared spaces, onsite devotions, and offsite activities to keep days interesting. For those needing more involved care, the manor covers non-ambulatory care, diabetic care, incontinence care, hospice, home care, cancer care, and memory care for Alzheimer's and dementia, with safety and structure in mind.

    Mommy Se Manor supports different types of stays, including long-term care, respite care for short breaks, adult day care, and hospice when needed. Folks can choose from independent living with resort-style extras, assisted living, memory care, and skilled nursing. Amenities include everything from full bathtubs to private suites, a structured activities program, and special touches like devotional services and meal plans. The manor doesn't accept Medicare as payment unless certified by Medicare & Medicaid Services, but it does have VA benefits and attendance programs.

    Several partner homes and communities operate under the larger umbrella, with names like Oakridge Senior Care in El Dorado Hills, Elim Oaks (rated 10/10), Elim Ranch, Whispering Pine (rated 8/10), Whispering Pine II, Compassionate Senior Care in Folsom, Compassionate Senior Care II, Conforts Manor, Royal Garden, and Willow Creek Manor, offering a variety of assisted living services. The Chalet offers independent living, assisted living, and rehab, and there are rated facilities in Orangevale, Folsom, El Dorado Hills, and Cameron Park.

    Families get peace of mind knowing the community is open day and night, staff are committed to respectful, individualized care, and residents have plenty of options for staying active and cared for in a place that feels comfortable and safe.

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