Mary Wade

    83 Pine St, New Haven, CT, 06513
    4.2 · 26 reviews
    • Assisted living
    • Memory care
    • Skilled nursing
    AnonymousLoved one of resident
    4.0

    Good facility, but care inconsistent

    I placed my mom here and have seen many positives: kind, cheery and professional staff, a very clean facility, excellent dining (tasty meals, guest trays, transportation arranged) and good nursing/hospice coordination that gave our family real peace of mind. That said, care is inconsistent-there are reports and a few incidents of slow responses, inattentive or lazy staff, missed therapy/requests, lost items and even allegations that deserve investigation. Overall I'd recommend with caution: the staff and food can be outstanding, but visit often and monitor care closely.

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Coordination with health care providers
    • Medication management
    • Mental wellness program

    Healthcare staffing

    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Transportation

    • Transportation arrangement (medical)
    • Transportation to doctors appointments

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Dining room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space

    Community services

    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    4.15 · 26 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      3.5
    • Staff

      3.8
    • Meals

      4.8
    • Amenities

      5.0
    • Value

      4.2

    Pros

    • Caring, compassionate staff
    • Attentive and prompt staff response (reported in many reviews)
    • Professional and sensitive clinical team
    • Excellent communication and hospice coordination
    • Clean facility with no foul smells
    • Home-like vibe and strong sense of community
    • High-quality, varied dining (lobster salad, lasagna mentioned)
    • Guest trays and meals offered to family; eat-with-spouse allowed
    • Transportation and rides arranged for appointments and vaccines
    • Short-term rehab and long-term care available
    • Residents treated with dignity and respect (memory care praised)
    • Trustworthy staff that give families peace of mind
    • Quick incident resolution reported by some families
    • Friendly, cheery staff; individualized attention (staff know residents)

    Cons

    • Allegations of neglect and possible elder abuse
    • Inconsistent care quality across shifts or units
    • Staff described as lazy, inattentive, or slow to respond to alarms
    • Unpleasant or demeaning behavior from some staff/social worker
    • Missed clinical programs and inadequate therapy in some cases
    • Lost resident belongings and unresolved reimbursement issues
    • Police involvement reported in at least one incident
    • HIPAA/privacy concerns noted by a reviewer
    • Potential COVID exposure due to care practices reported
    • Reports of residents left soiled or begging for help

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment is mixed but leans positive in quantity: a majority of reviews highlight strong, compassionate caregiving, clean and home-like facilities, good food, and solid operational supports such as transportation and hospice coordination. Numerous reviewers explicitly recommended Mary Wade, praising staff who are attentive, professional, and sensitive. Memory care and hospice services are called out positively, with families noting dignified treatment, smooth interfacing with hospice, and a reassuring sense that the resident is well cared for. Several reviews mention specific staff by name and describe helpful, cheery interactions, reinforcing a perception of personalized, resident-centered care for many families.

    Staff quality emerges as the single most frequently mentioned theme, but it is highly polarized. Many reviews describe staff as caring, attentive, respectful, and prompt — attributes that contributed to peace of mind for families and to positive impressions of both short-term rehab and long-term residency. At the same time, a distinct cluster of reviews reports the opposite: accounts of lazy or inattentive workers, slow response to alarms, ignored calls for help, and specific incidents where residents were left soiled or required family intervention. There are also reports of demeaning behavior by a social worker and at least one report alleging elder abuse. This variability points to unevenness in staff performance or supervision across shifts, units, or individual caregivers.

    Clinical care and safety are likewise mixed. Positive reviews describe outstanding care, good communication with nurses and clinicians, and appropriate coordination with external providers including Hospice. However, there are serious negative reports that cannot be overlooked: missed respiratory programming, inadequate therapy, an unaddressed doctor request, and lost or mishandled personal items with reimbursement disputes. Some reviewers also reported police involvement and concerns about HIPAA/privacy breaches and potential COVID exposure related to care. These incidents represent high-severity concerns that contrast sharply with accounts of excellent clinical support and rapid incident resolution in other reviews.

    Dining and physical environment are consistently highlighted as strengths. Multiple reviewers praise the food quality and menu variety (lobster salad, lasagna, and other tasty meals were named), the availability of guest trays and family meals, and the overall cleanliness and pleasant smells of the facility. The setting is described repeatedly as home-like and comfortable, contributing to a sense of community and making it easier for families to visit. Operationally, reviewers appreciate practical supports such as arranging rides for medical appointments and vaccinations, and the availability of short-term rehab services alongside long-term care.

    In summary, the review set shows a facility that delivers excellent, compassionate care and a welcoming environment for many residents and families, with strong points in dining, housekeeping, hospice coordination, and some aspects of staff performance. However, there are multiple, serious negative reports describing neglect, inconsistent therapy, lost belongings, privacy and safety concerns, and at least one allegation that escalated to police involvement. The pattern is one of high variability: many families are highly satisfied and recommend Mary Wade, while a smaller but significant subset experienced troubling lapses. These contrasting reports suggest the need for targeted attention to consistency in staff training, supervision, and incident management to ensure that positive experiences are uniformly delivered across the facility.

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    About Mary Wade

    Mary Wade has a long history as a senior care facility in New Haven and covers many care needs for older adults, starting from independent living all the way up to full medical services and support for memory loss, and the campus includes small Board and Care Homes where only a few residents live together and get daily help, and you'll find larger senior living communities with independent apartments too, so there's always a fit for differing needs. Nurses, aides, and therapists work with residents every day, and skilled nursing and short-term rehabilitation are built right into the services, so if someone needs wound care, IV therapy, or therapy like physical, speech, or occupational, the team can provide it, and they're used to working with hospice as needed, making sure there's a smooth process at every stage of care. The staff gives help with things like daily tasks, medication management, and meals, and the facility doesn't let residents bring their own medications from home because of state laws, but residents get good food that's better than standard hospital meals and can count on full housekeeping, laundry, and dietary service as part of the daily rate.

    Folks with Alzheimer's or dementia have secure areas, plus programs aimed at memory, and there's a monthly Alzheimer's Support Group at the Mary Wade Home right on campus, along with early detection services and partnerships with the Alzheimer's Association, so families know their loved ones are being looked after and can access support as things change. The place has no set visiting hours, so anyone can visit at any time, and in the evenings security staff walk visitors to their cars, which people have found helpful. Staff is available 24 hours a day and there are physicians who visit the property several times a week and can be called if needed, and nursing teams specialize in everything from wound care to regular check-ins, while staff helps residents with things like bathing, dressing, and other personal tasks.

    Rooms come fully furnished, but everyone has the choice to bring in some of their own comfort items like bedspreads, lamps, or even family photographs and decorative pillows to make it feel more like home; you'll find both private and double rooms, and there's a little slip of privacy in those shared rooms because they're arranged thoughtfully. People can use their own large TVs and cell phones, and television and phone service in the room can be added for a fee, while free WIFI covers the whole property. Mary Wade has a beauty salon with two hair stylists and appointments from Tuesday through Saturday, which some people find convenient. Housekeeping, laundry, and meals are all handled, and transportation's available as needed for trips off-site. The main entrance is on Pine Street, and people have easy access for coming and going.

    There are community activities, social events, and programs for everyone to stay involved, and the atmosphere focuses on comfort and security. The staff gets to know each resident and tries to meet personal needs, whether someone needs more medical help or just wants to live a more independent life without having to worry about housework or upkeep. Memory care, short-term rehab, long-term care, adult day services, and traditional residential care are all available, so at Mary Wade, there are choices to suit a wide range of seniors as their needs grow and change.

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