Belle Meade Retirement Community

    100 Waters Dr, Southern Pines, NC, 28387
    4.1 · 22 reviews
    • Independent living
    • Assisted living
    • Memory care
    • Skilled nursing
    AnonymousCurrent/former resident
    4.0

    Beautiful campus, helpful staff, costly

    I like the beautiful, well-kept campus - ponds, walkways and great views - with lots of amenities (pool, gym with trainer, salon, library, chapel), many activities, free medical transportation and helpful staff. Staff are generally friendly and often go above-and-beyond, but communication is a big downside: phones frequently aren't answered or returned promptly and after-hours coverage feels thin. Dining and service are usually excellent with diverse menus, though some report inconsistent food quality, strict dining rules and high meal costs. Apartments are modern and pet-friendly (cottages can be small and far from dining); overall it's a safe, caring community but quite expensive, so value depends on how much you'll use the services.

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Medication management

    Healthcare staffing

    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Air-conditioning
    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Private bathrooms
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Transportation

    • Community operated transportation
    • Transportation arrangement
    • Transportation arrangement (non-medical)

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Computer center
    • Fitness room
    • Gaming room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space
    • Small library
    • Wellness center

    Community services

    • Concierge services
    • Fitness programs
    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Planned day trips
    • Resident-run activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    4.09 · 22 reviews

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      3.3
    • Staff

      3.3
    • Meals

      4.1
    • Amenities

      4.4
    • Value

      2.3

    Pros

    • Large, well-designed apartments
    • Beautiful campus landscaping and grounds
    • Water, pond, and fountain views
    • Friendly, caring, and hardworking staff
    • Extensive on-site amenities (pool, gym, salon, on-site bank)
    • Variety of residence types (1–3 bedroom, cottages, apartments)
    • Wide range of activities and programs (classes, clubs, outings)
    • Strong sense of community and social life
    • Multiple dining venues with many positive dining reports
    • Meals delivered to doors and weekly changing menus available
    • Free transportation to medical appointments
    • Pet-friendly housing options
    • Good maintenance, housekeeping, and grounds upkeep
    • Security/concierge presence and safety emphasis
    • Excursions and cultural opportunities (symphony, golf privileges)

    Cons

    • High entrance fee and expensive monthly fees
    • High cost for on-site meals and limited included meals (only continental breakfast)
    • Additional charges for modifications (e.g., carpeting)
    • Formal dining dress-code (coat-and-tie) seen as restrictive
    • Perceived pretentious or high-end atmosphere
    • Mixed or inconsistent dining experiences reported (some say poor food, lack of fresh produce, inattentive waitstaff)
    • Poor phone responsiveness and slow return calls
    • High staff turnover and inconsistent staffing
    • Communication gaps, especially around crises and visiting information
    • Cottages located far from dining/common areas and some cottages are small
    • Location not close to shopping/entertainment; reliant on transport
    • Some reviewers report fewer on-site activities than expected
    • Perception of sales/marketing pressure and feeling undervalued unless purchasing
    • Occasional safety/medical response concerns (reports of gate attendant intervention, ambulance called)
    • Perceived inconsistent value for the cost

    Summary review

    Overall sentiment across reviews for Belle Meade Retirement Community is broadly positive about the physical campus, many amenities, and the caring nature of much of the staff, but tempered by recurring concerns about cost, communication, and inconsistency in some services.

    Facilities and grounds: Reviewers consistently praise the campus appearance — large, well-designed apartments, attractive landscaping with multiple ponds and fountains, pleasant walking paths, and water/landscape views. On-site amenities are robust: reports mention a saltwater pool with jacuzzi, a fully furnished gym often with a trainer, salon services, on-site bank, game rooms, movie theater, chapel, and several dining venues. There are varied housing options from one- to three-bedroom apartments to cottages (the cottages are described as pricier), and many reviewers note modern, updated apartments and great maintenance and housekeeping. The overall physical environment is described as neat, clean, and well kept, contributing to a strong first impression and ongoing resident satisfaction.

    Staff and care quality: Many reviews highlight friendly, caring, and hardworking staff who go above and beyond, especially during the COVID period. Examples include meals delivered to doors, in-home checks, exercise programs, prompt maintenance, and staff heroism in crisis situations; these behaviors contribute to a sense of safety and community and make residents feel supported. A daytime concierge and after-hours security presence are noted positively. However, there are important caveats: several reviewers report high staff turnover, inconsistent staffing levels, and instances where no staff were available to check on a resident or respond to calls. Phone responsiveness and slow returned calls are one of the most frequent specific complaints, which undermines confidence in responsiveness even where staff performance is otherwise praised.

    Dining and food service: Dining elicits mixed but strongly felt reactions. Many reviews celebrate dining excellence — superb service in casual and main dining rooms, varied menus, weekly changes, and the availability of meals delivered to residents. Conversely, other reviewers report poor meal quality (no fresh vegetables or fruit), inattentive or

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    About Belle Meade Retirement Community

    Belle Meade at St. Joseph of the Pines is a retirement community at 100 Waters Dr in Southern Pines, NC, and gives seniors a place where they can age in place. The community offers many living options including independent living apartment homes, assisted living, memory care, and skilled nursing for people who need more help after an illness or hospital stay, so folks can stay in one spot even as their needs change. Staff are fully trained, friendly, and always on hand to give support with things like medicine, bathing, dressing, getting around, and daily tasks, and there are services for people who can't walk or need more supervision. There's a strong focus on safety with emergency alert systems, a 24-hour call system, transportation, parking, move-in help, and concierge services to make life easier. Residents can join social, educational, and fun activities, including games, arts, movies, and resident-run events, and there are daily schedules so folks can always find something to do with others and make new friends. People can decorate their own suites with favorite furniture, and apartments have private bathrooms, kitchenettes, cable TV, air conditioning, phones, and fast internet, so everyone can feel at home. Meal services here have restaurant-style dining, all-day dining, and meals cooked by a professional chef, and special diets like allergy, diabetes, or other health needs are covered, so residents can eat both safely and comfortably. Community spaces include a library, game room, movie theater, activity and arts rooms, fitness and wellness rooms, and a community garden, with plenty of walking paths and outdoor programs, so there are lots of places to relax or stay active. Belle Meade has easy access to nearby cafes, restaurants, shops, outdoor spots, and medical centers, making trips out simple. Office hours run Monday through Thursday from 9am to 5pm and Friday from 9am to 3pm, and though you're best to make an appointment, they have a virtual tour available if you want to look around first.

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