Southern Plaza Assisted Living / Memory Care

    3704 N Asbury Ave, Bethany, OK 73008
    • Assisted Living
    • Memory Care

    Kind staff, comfortable family-like community

    I feel great relief knowing my dad is here - staff are kind, attentive, and provide compassionate, accurate care in a clean, beautiful facility. Excellent meals, plentiful activities and outings, and amenities like large rooms, a library, workout room, snack fridge and storm shelters make daily life comfortable. It's welcoming and family-like with clear staff communication; I'm very satisfied and would recommend this community.

    Loved one of resident
    Jul 2026

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    Reviews

    4.59·(27)

    Overall rating

    1. 5
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    5. 1
    • Care

      4.3
    • Staff

      4.5
    • Meals

      4.5
    • Amenities

      4.2
    • Value

      3.0

    Pros

    • Modern, well-maintained facility
    • Clean, well-lit interior spaces
    • Dedicated memory-care amenities (large TV, recliners)
    • On-floor storm shelters with bathrooms and seating
    • Multiple dining areas and pleasant dining environment
    • High-quality meals and notable menu favorites
    • 24/7 snack access
    • Varied activities and social programming
    • Transportation for medical appointments and outings
    • On-site salon/beauty parlor
    • Fitness/workout room
    • Friendly, compassionate staff
    • Family-like social environment
    • Proactive management presence
    • Affordable pricing options for some households

    Cons

    • Medication management
    • Gaps in fall-prevention and resident-safety procedures
    • Staff conduct and accountability gaps
    • Inconsistent service reliability and occasional care delays
    • Management responsiveness and follow-through gaps
    • Limited visitation-policy flexibility during infection-control situations
    • Perceived high cost for some families
    • Limited bed availability at times
    • Occasional menu or food-variety dissatisfaction

    Summary of reviews

    Overall impression: Reviewers present a largely positive view of the facility’s physical environment and social programming while also raising several operational concerns. The campus is consistently described as modern, clean, and well maintained; common and dining areas are well lit and attractively appointed. The memory-care neighborhood benefits from dedicated amenities — large televisions, reclining seating, and a substantial secure shelter space — and storm-shelter infrastructure on each floor was repeatedly noted as a strength.

    Care and staff: Many families and residents praised the staff as friendly, compassionate, and reassuring, and several accounts speak to attentive personal care that delivers peace of mind. At the same time, there are operational concerns about clinical oversight that warrant attention: reviewers cite issues consistent with uneven medication management and gaps in fall-prevention or transfer-safety procedures. Relatedly, some comments reflect worries about staff conduct and accountability, and a subset of families felt management did not always follow through promptly when those concerns were raised. These patterns suggest generally good day-to-day caregiving for many residents but with notable variability in clinical controls and supervisory follow-up.

    Dining and activities: Dining is a clear strength for most reviewers — meals are described as excellent, with specific menu items singled out positively, and the presence of multiple dining rooms contributes to a pleasant experience. There are occasional mentions of menu items that do not appeal to every resident, indicating some variability in food preferences and satisfaction. Activity programming appears robust: walkers, puzzles, library resources, beauty-parlor services, fitness options, and organized outings (including transportation and doctor-appointment trips) support social engagement and quality of life.

    Facilities and amenities: The building is frequently described as state-of-the-art with thoughtful features such as 24/7 snack access, nearby elevators, comfortable resident rooms, and communal spaces that encourage interaction. Memory-care spaces include oversized shelters with seating and bathrooms; these areas also serve as activity zones during weather events. Overall, the physical plant and amenity set are strengths for people seeking a modern, comfortable assisted-living or memory-care setting.

    Management and patterns to watch: Several reviewers complimented proactive management when present, but others cited gaps in responsiveness and follow-through on staff issues. Visitation restrictions during infection-control events were mentioned as a source of family frustration, and availability can be limited at times. Cost perceptions vary: some reviewers describe the pricing as affordable and within their range, while at least one noted that the facility felt expensive. Prospective families should clarify current pricing, bed availability, medication-administration protocols, fall-prevention practices, and visitation policies during their tour.

    Bottom line: Southern Plaza presents as a well-appointed, socially active community with many elements that families value — strong dining, engaging activities, and a welcoming physical environment. However, documented concerns about medication oversight, resident-safety procedures, staff accountability, and occasional responsiveness from management indicate areas that prospective residents and families should review closely during visits and contract discussions. Requesting written policies on medication administration, fall-prevention measures, staff training and supervision, incident reporting, and visitation rules will help evaluate whether the facility’s operational practices meet a family’s clinical and oversight expectations.

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    Location

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    Southern Plaza Assisted Living / Memory Care is located at 3704 N Asbury Ave, Bethany, OK, 73008.

    About Southern Plaza Assisted Living / Memory Care

    Southern Plaza Assisted Living / Memory Care sits on Asbury Avenue in Bethany, Oklahoma, right by their independent living community on College Avenue, so folks can choose the kind of support they need as time goes by. Owned by Southern Nazarene University and managed by Purple Door, LLC, the place has a Christian retirement community focus, which a lot of residents seem to appreciate, and you'll find that kindness is part of the culture, with staff who are known to be friendly, long-term, and helpful, and they call themselves "friends" to the folks they care for. The building follows a craftsman style and stays modern, with FEMA-approved safe rooms, a storm shelter, landscaped courtyards with sitting areas, and walkways for simple strolls or some fresh air. There's always 24-hour staff on site and an emergency system for safety and peace of mind, and the community is all on one level, so it's easy to get around for those using walkers or wheelchairs, plus there's handicap access and parking right nearby.

    You can pick from several apartment floor plans-studio, one-bedroom, two-bedroom, and special Memory Care units-all with private spaces, walk-in showers with benches, big closets, and most have a kitchenette with a microwave and a fridge, and some kitchens have granite counters and under-cabinet lighting. Apartments have their own thermostats so you can adjust the temperature just how you like, with all utilities included along with cable TV, phone service, and Wi-Fi that reaches all over the building. Housekeeping comes weekly, including laundry for flat linens, and if you need it, someone's there to help you move in and get settled without much fuss. The building is fully sprinklered and has smoke alarms.

    The dining room serves continental breakfasts, big lunches, and hot dinners Monday through Saturday, and on Sundays, you still get breakfast and lunch, all with menu choices for folks needing diabetic or allergy-sensitive diets. You'll see people gathered around in the event center, craft room, computer spot, or reading in the library. Entertainment is part of everyday life here, with movie nights, games, social events, plus faith-based services, a billiards room, a beauty and barber shop, and a fitness program if you want to keep moving. Pets are allowed close by, and there's scheduled transportation for errands, shopping, doctor visits, or just getting out for something fun.

    Care teams help folks who need support with bathing, dressing, transfers, or taking medicine, and there's a nurse on staff part-time to assist with more specific needs. The memory care side is locked and secure, but residents can safely visit with friends and family, go outside in the secured courtyards, and move about inside, with staff trained in redirection and specialized memory programs like "Life in Motion," all tailored for people living with Alzheimer's or dementia. The philosophy puts a lot of weight on people's right to make their own choices-staff try to partner with residents to meet each person's preferences, rather than force routines, and everything from daily schedules to food and activities can be made personal.

    Southern Plaza Assisted Living / Memory Care aims to give seniors a peaceful home where help is always close by, but people can keep their independence for as long as possible, surrounded by a Christian community that encourages good company, safe living, and simple pleasures-nothing too fancy, but steady and comfortable. The staff, amenities, and care services get good marks in reviews, with families saying they feel at ease knowing loved ones are well cared for here, so if someone's looking for a place where you can pick your living style, have a bit of privacy, join in with others, and get help when you need it, this facility is a steady option right here in Bethany.

    People often ask...

    Southern Plaza Assisted Living / Memory Care offers assisted living and memory care.

    The full address for this community is 3704 N Asbury Ave, Bethany, OK 73008.

    No, Southern Plaza Assisted Living / Memory Care does not offer respite care. Respite care in assisted living communities provides temporary, short-term relief for primary caregivers by offering professional care for their loved ones. It allows individuals to stay in an assisted living community for a limited time, giving caregivers a break while ensuring residents receive necessary support and assistance with daily activities.

    Safety & Compliance

    In Oklahoma, the State Department of Health's Long Term Care Service licenses residential and assisted living facilities and publishes the results of its surveys.

    License numberAL5549
    StatusOpen
    Facility typeAssisted Living Center
    Capacity110 residents
    LicenseeZEMKE, DANELLE
    Special certificationLICENSED ONLY

    Inspection Reports

    2

    Reports

    1

    Type A Citations

    0

    Type B Citations

    0

    Complaints

    3

    Years

    08 Oct 2025Inspection
    Found no deficiencies cited following the survey conducted on October 8, 2025.
    14 Jun 2023Inspection
    Investigated a complaint about medication administration; found that medications were not ordered and available for administration as required by the Resident Service Agreement for one resident.
    • Type AMedication orders and administration per Resident Service Agreement

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