Pricing ranges from
    $5,271 – 6,852/month

    The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care

    10802 E 81st St, Tulsa, OK 74133
    • Assisted Living
    • Memory Care

    Welcoming compassionate memory care community

    I toured Linden at Stonehaven Square and felt welcomed from the start. The building is beautiful and spotlessly clean with a warm, homey atmosphere, and staff genuinely care - responsive, professional, and like family. My mom thrived in memory care: engaging activities, good dining with dietary options, and excellent communication and transition support. Overall I'm very pleased and would recommend it to families seeking compassionate, well-run senior living.

    Loved one of resident
    Jul 2026

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    Amenities

    Healthcare services

    • Activities of daily living assistance
    • Assistance with bathing
    • Assistance with dressing
    • Assistance with transfers
    • Coordination with health care providers
    • Hospice waiver
    • Medication management
    • Mental wellness program

    Healthcare staffing

    • 12-16 hour nursing
    • 24-hour call system
    • 24-hour supervision

    Meals and dining

    • Diabetes diet
    • Meal preparation and service
    • Restaurant-style dining
    • Special dietary restrictions

    Room

    • Air-conditioning
    • Cable
    • Fully furnished
    • Housekeeping and linen services
    • Kitchenettes
    • Private bathrooms
    • Telephone
    • Wifi

    Memory care community services

    • Dementia waiver
    • Mild cognitive impairment
    • Specialized memory care programming

    Transportation

    • Community operated transportation
    • Transportation arrangement
    • Transportation arrangement (medical)
    • Transportation arrangement (non-medical)
    • Transportation to doctors appointments

    Common areas

    • Beauty salon
    • Computer center
    • Dining room
    • Fitness room
    • Gaming room
    • Garden
    • Outdoor space
    • Small library
    • Wellness center

    Community services

    • Concierge services
    • Fitness programs
    • Move-in coordination

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities
    • Planned day trips
    • Resident-run activities
    • Scheduled daily activities

    Reviews

    4.56·(82)

    Overall rating

    1. 5
    2. 4
    3. 3
    4. 2
    5. 1
    • Care

      4.4
    • Staff

      4.6
    • Meals

      4.4
    • Amenities

      4.4
    • Value

      1.7

    Pros

    • Compassionate, attentive caregiving staff
    • Engaging memory-care programming
    • Strong family communication tools (LifeLoop, texts, Facebook)
    • Coordinated clinical services (PT/OT/speech, physician collaboration)
    • Clean, modern, well-maintained building
    • Restaurant-style dining and chef engagement
    • Varied amenities (theater, fitness room, game room, salon, bistro)
    • Robust daily and weekly activity schedule
    • Supportive move-in and hospital-transfer logistics
    • Laundry and housekeeping services with regular room cleaning
    • Comfortable common spaces (fireplaces, balconies, large windows)
    • Hospice-friendly end-of-life support and compassionate palliative care
    • Responsive leadership and visible management involvement
    • Convenient location and accessible campus layout

    Cons

    • Inconsistent staffing and elevated turnover
    • Gaps in communication and follow-up with families
    • Inconsistent personal-care routines and assistance
    • Laundry and personal-belongings tracking weaknesses
    • Variable meal quality and menu consistency
    • After-hours staffing and emergency-response limitations
    • Limited capability for higher-acuity clinical needs (lifts, on-site PT availability)
    • Onboarding and resident-orientation process gaps
    • Small private-unit sizes relative to expectations
    • Landscaping and exterior-maintenance inconsistencies
    • Operational variability following ownership transition

    Summary of reviews

    The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care receives frequent praise for the quality of day-to-day engagement and the physical environment. Families and residents commonly describe a clean, modern facility with attractive common spaces — fireplaces, balconies, large windows and a welcoming lobby — and a broad set of on-site amenities such as a theater, fitness room, game room, bistro and salon. The campus layout and convenient location off HW 169 are seen as assets for visitors and for resident mobility.

    Care delivery and staff interaction are areas of clear strength for many families. Reviewers regularly highlight compassionate, attentive caregivers who cultivate a family-like atmosphere, proactive nursing that coordinates with therapists and physicians, and staff who provide logistical assistance for moves and hospital transfers. Memory-care programming and enrichment activities are robust: residents benefit from structured daily schedules, exercise and social programming, cooking classes, themed celebrations and continuous engagement designed to reduce isolation. The community also demonstrates capability in end-of-life support; hospice involvement and compassionate palliative care were described as well supported by staff.

    Dining and hospitality elements are often singled out positively: restaurant-style service, chef engagement, homemade desserts and a varied menu contribute to an appealing dining experience for many residents. Housekeeping and laundry services are frequently noted as reliable, with rooms cleaned regularly and linens cared for. At the same time, a pattern of variable meal quality and reductions in menu variety following operational changes was raised by multiple families; this is an area where consistency appears uneven.

    Several operational weaknesses recur across reviews and merit attention. Staffing consistency is a common concern — higher turnover and periodic shortages were associated with gaps in follow-up, slower responsiveness, and uneven coverage at night. Related issues include inconsistent personal-care routines (assistance with dressing, oral care and toileting), occasional lapses in documentation or clinical reporting, and weaknesses in tracking and returning personal belongings and laundry. Some families also identified limits in the community’s ability to support higher-acuity needs, citing a lack of lifts, limited on-site therapy at times, and constrained end-of-life equipment policies that can affect residents with advanced clinical needs.

    Management visibility and communication receive mixed assessments. Many families praise proactive, responsive leadership and strong family-facing communication tools (LifeLoop, texts, Facebook updates). Conversely, others describe episodes of poor follow-up, insensitive communication tone, or managerial inattention to front-line concerns. Several reviewers noted an ownership transition that appears to have influenced operational consistency — for example, menu adjustments and staffing changes — and suggested that some aspects of service are in flux.

    In summary, Stonehaven presents as a well-appointed, activity-rich community with many strengths in caregiver compassion, memory-care engagement, facility amenities and family communication. Prospective residents and families should weigh these strengths against reported variability in staffing continuity, personal-care consistency, meal consistency and the facility’s capacity for higher-acuity medical needs. Asking targeted questions about staff turnover, night and weekend coverage, laundry and belongings procedures, onboarding for new residents, and recent changes since the ownership transition will help families determine how well the community matches a specific loved one’s care requirements.

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    Location

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    The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care is located at 10802 E 81st St, Tulsa, OK, 74133.

    About The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care

    The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care sits in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and has built a good reputation for helpful staff, friendly service, and a community that makes people feel welcome, so families often say the workers act with kindness and joy and always help out when needed. The building looks clean and well-kept, and folks talk about the nice smell and the way staff members say hello, which helps visitors feel comfortable when they come through the doors, and many find that the award plaques for Best Activities, Best Meals, and Most Friendly are well-earned. Meals use quality ingredients and are served up in the Gold Leaf Dining room or the busy bistro, so residents get choices like vegetarian or low-sodium options and can eat with friends or family when they visit, and if someone prefers to eat alone, room service is available.

    Stonehaven offers assisted living, memory care, independent living, home care, respite care, and personal care, and takes in older folks who need some help with bathing, dressing, and daily medicines, as well as people living with Alzheimer's disease or other forms of dementia. Nurses and caregivers write up personal care plans after meeting the resident and keep the support steady day or night, so people get help when they need it and can still do things on their own when possible, and those who deal with memory loss get added safety and support, including programs made to reduce confusion and keep residents from wandering off. The staff leads activities for the mind and body, things like music groups, painting classes, Wii Sports Bowling, Dakim BrainFitness, walking clubs, devotional services, and visits from therapy dogs, so there's usually something to do both indoors and outdoors, and the calendar's always pinned up so no one forgets the next event.

    The place was built with older adults in mind, with features like wide hallways, bathrooms designed for safety, and easy-to-find rooms, and there are studio, one-bedroom, and two-bedroom apartments, all on two floors, that let people keep their independence but get support when needed. There's a full-service salon, a living room area for sitting and chatting, a private dining room for special meals, a movie theater, and a kitchen for residents, plus a game room and communal spaces full of sunlight, and outside you'll find patios and a front porch with a fireplace where people can visit, get fresh air, or sit and relax.

    Stonehaven accepts pets-so cats and dogs are welcome in private spaces-and the whole building has Wi-Fi and public transport options nearby, so getting around isn't a problem. The community gets reviewed for licensing twice a year and is a verified partner of A Place for Mom, so families can count on care that meets state requirements. There are transportation services for appointments and outings, along with weekly housekeeping, so daily chores don't get in the way of living a full life, and families often note the prompt response from staff when questions come up. Folks can take a tour, share a meal, and get a sense for daily life, with plenty of chances to see dining, wellness programs, and group activities in action.

    Stonehaven's main focus lands on helping people keep their independence, find new friendships, and stay active, with supports in place when health needs change, so it works well for older adults in Tulsa and nearby towns who want a safe, lively community where care goes hand in hand with comfort and respect.

    About Legend Senior Living

    The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care is managed by Legend Senior Living.

    Legend Senior Living was founded in 2001 by industry pioneer Tim Buchanan, who pioneered the assisted living concept across the nation nearly 30 years ago. Headquartered in Wichita, Kansas, the company remains a privately held family business currently led by two generations of the Buchanan family, including President Matt Buchanan. Legend Senior Living currently owns and operates over 70 residences across seven states: Colorado, Florida, Kansas, Missouri, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, and Texas. The company has experienced significant growth in recent years, adding 11 communities in 2023, eight in 2024, and eight completed by mid-2025.

    People often ask...

    The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care offers competitive pricing, with rates starting at a cost of $5,271 per month.

    The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care offers assisted living and memory care.

    There are 42 photos of The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care on Mirador.

    The full address for this community is 10802 E 81st St, Tulsa, OK 74133.

    No, The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care does not offer respite care. Respite care in assisted living communities provides temporary, short-term relief for primary caregivers by offering professional care for their loved ones. It allows individuals to stay in an assisted living community for a limited time, giving caregivers a break while ensuring residents receive necessary support and assistance with daily activities.

    Safety & Compliance

    In Oklahoma, the State Department of Health's Long Term Care Service licenses residential and assisted living facilities and publishes the results of its surveys.

    License numberAL7267
    StatusOpen
    Facility typeAssisted Living Center
    Capacity142 residents
    LicenseeBOLEN, JESSICA
    Special certificationLICENSED ONLY

    Inspection Reports

    3

    Reports

    1

    Type A Citations

    0

    Type B Citations

    0

    Complaints

    5

    Years

    14 Sept 2023Inspection
    Investigated a resident care complaint; found no deficiencies cited.
    06 Jun 2023Inspection
    Investigated a deficiency in food preparation due to kitchen staff not wearing hair restraints while handling meals.
    • Type A310-663-3-8(a)FOOD STORAGE, PREPARATION AND SERVICE
    11 Oct 2021Inspection
    Investigated deficiencies in care practices and infection control; some allegations were substantiated and others were unsubstantiated.
    • SInfection control procedures
    • SMedication administration
    • SPhysician orders

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